이 기사는 소형 과정에서 이다 조셉 Mathews 회보를 통해 발송했다. 그것에는 그것에 있는 2 오프너 및 오프너의 중요성에 관하여 몇몇 좋은 아이디어가 있다. 조셉은이다 중대한 책의 저자 "접근의 예술“
당신이 원하는 여자를 만나십시오!
당신이 여자를 만나기 위하여 려고 하는 경우에, 당신은 a를 시작하는 방법 알아야 한다
그녀와 가진 대화. 그것의 주위에 정당하다 방법 없다. 당신은 해야 한다
그녀, 그리고 가장 쉬운 (와 받아들여지는 최대를) 방법을 어떤 의미에서는 접전하십시오
그녀 말하는 것은 이다.
그러나 이것은 대부분의 남자가 질식시키는 곳 이다.
이제까지 이어 당신이 당신이 진짜로 아름다웠던 것 본 상황에서 있다
만나고 당신이 싶었던 여자는, 그 때 급격하게 당신의 두뇌 a를 가지고 갔다
휴가와 당신은 단 하나 것을 밝히고 간단하게 생각할 수 없었는가? 실행
그리고 당신이 그것을 알고 있기 전에 그 후에, 순간은, 통과했다
opportunity is gone, and the woman you wanted to meet is now gone
forever!
Or worse yet…
You ARE able to think of something to say to her, but the
conversation quickly fizzles out and the girl moves on, leaving you
feeling like you’ve blown your chance!
Hey, we’ve all been there before.
Here’s a FACT for you to chew on…
Being able to quickly engage a woman in a conversation DRAMATICALLY
increases your ability to get them on a date!
See, when you have a conversation with another person, you’re not
just simply TALKING to them. What you’re doing is creating rapport
and comfort with that person, which are the necessary building
blocks of HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS.
Without rapport and comfort, there is no way you can get a girl to
give you a serious commitment to see you again.
Period.
End of story.
Do not pass GO, do not collect $200.
Now, I know that there are some guys out there who would rather
take a swift kick to the teeth than talk to a girl. But that’s
because they simply don’t know what to say to a woman to get a
conversation started with them!
In my book, The Art Of Approaching, I take a great deal of time
sharing tons and tons of tactics on how to quickly and easily meet
any woman you want, and how to get them into instant conversations
to create that all-important comfort and rapport that will get you
that date you want!
No other book will go as in-depth into the art of meeting women as
mine does. When you get my book, you’ll learn all about the
concept of the “Opener.”
The Opener is a line you can use to start a conversation with a
woman that has the ability to lead into a larger conversation and
more interaction with her. It’s the catalyst of every interaction
you’ll have with a girl.
Usually, I recommend you have 3 openers memorized and ready to go,
so that once one runs its course, you have two more ready to go to
carry on that conversation.
A good Opener can be anything that’s relatively open-ended, and can
be transformed into different conversations.
Here’s one you can try out for yourself:
“Hi, this’ll only take a second — I need a female opinion on
something. My little niece (or cousin, or sister, or daughter) has
a birthday coming up, and she’s at that age where she’s really into
stuffed animals, and I’m wondering… do you think a little girl
would like a stuffed tiger or a stuffed unicorn better?”
Now, after saying this, she may ask you questions about your niece,
like how old she is and what she likes. Tell her that she’s young
(like 10-12) and that she has so many stuffed animals already, but
you know she doesn’t have a unicorn or a tiger.
When the woman you’re talking to answers, ask her why she thinks
that’s the way to go. So for instance:
HER: Get her the tiger. Totally.
YOU: The tiger? Why do you think the tiger is the way to go?
HER: Tigers are cool! They’re like big cuddly cats.
From there, you can talk about any number of things. Her
childhood, what stuffed animals she liked crowing up, her love of
cats, the toys you used to play with when you were young, etc.
Just find SOMETHING the woman says to latch onto and use that to
relate to her. Start talking about that one topic until the
conversation starts to flow. And if one conversation runs its
course, you can stack another opener to start a new conversation.
For instance, a good follow-up to this opener is:
“So, do you like kids?”
After she answers, ask her why is it she feels that way. Then talk
about your views on kids (tip: Always agree with her point of
view! At least initially).
Eventually, the conversation will be flowing, and before you know
it, it’s time to ask for her number and set up a date!
Seriously, go out and try the Openers I’ve given you for yourself
and see what results you’ll get. I guarantee you’ll be pleasantly
surprised at the reactions you get.
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