I recieved this newsletter from David DeAngelo and I thougtht it was quite true. A huge mistake I used to make was feeling like I always had to have something cool to say to a women. This made me insecure, becuase I rarely felt I could think of anything to say.

I would look around and notice that some guys would just say whatever they felt like without regard to what the woman was thinking. These guys were the ones getting laid. Me I was still sitting there waiting for the perfect line to impress them.

He also talks about when a girl asks what you do for a living. This also used to be a huge mistake of mine. The fact is they don’t care, and you don’t care what they do. Neither one of you want to hear about the other’s job. The best way to avoid this boring conversation is to deflect it with a joke. David gives an example in the letter below. Look it over and let me know what you think about it.  I highly recommend David’s famous book Double Your Dating.

HOW TO IMPRESS ANY WOMAN

I’ve learned a secret to impressing women that I’m going to share with you in this newsletter.

It’s a secret that probably not 1 in 1,000 men knows or will ever figure out on his own.

The REASON that most men will never figure out this particular secret is that it’s TOO OBVIOUS.

Let me explain…

I personally think that most men feel a very powerful desire to IMPRESS women.

If you watch the way a man behaves when he’s talking to a woman he’s just met or a woman that he’s on a first date with, you can SEE IT.

Maybe you’ve been there yourself.

I know I have. Many, many times, in fact.

The feeling that you need to impress a woman usually comes along with another feeling: DON’T SCREW THIS UP.

Here are some of the signs that a guy is feeling the need to “impress” the woman that he’s
talking to:

1) He tries to only say “cool” things, or things that will “impress” the woman.

2) He acts nervous and stilted during the conversation… sometimes coming across as “formal”.

3) He tries to figure out what the woman wants to hear.

4) If he says something that the woman doesn’t like, he “back-pedals” and tries to change what
he said to suit the woman.

5) He doesn’t say anything “risky”, doesn’t tease the woman, and doesn’t do anything to upset her.

…in other words, when a guy is talking to a woman that he “likes”, he’s usually on his “best behavior”, and he’s trying to “put his best foot forward”.

To say it again, MEN FEEL A POWERFUL DRIVE TO IMPRESS THE WOMAN THAT THEY “LIKE”.

And this drive to impress often makes them act UNNATURAL.

There’s your first hint, in fact…

THE SECRET

Remember at the beginning when I told you that I was going to share a secret with you about how to impress women that not 1 in 1,000 men will figure out on their own?

Well, here it is:

STOP TRYING.

If you will just STOP TRYING to impress women, and do the things I’m teaching you instead, women will NATURALLY be “impressed” by you.

TRYING TO IMPRESS A WOMAN DOESN’T IMPRESS HER.

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