Kino the moment you meet a girl. Meeting someone for the first time is an excellent chance for starting kino - shaking hands when exchanging names is a tradition of many cultures and cultures. But make sure you hold on to her hand longer than expected, long enough for you to enjoy it and her to notice, if not you enjoying it but at least you not letting go as quickly as people usually do.
When meeting girls you already know, shaking hands might seem strange, so giving some sort of a hug is the way to go. You don’t need to fall all over her to give her a hug (which depending on the situation might even make you look like a fool or a pervert (which we all are, lol) or make her embarrassed instead of having her enjoy it too:), a hug can also be putting your arm around her waist or shoulders when standing to her left or right and pulling her closer for a moment, or taking her hand for a moment (but not shaking it), or her elbow, or arm, whatever you can get your hands on:)
Set the mood of the date from the start. Be in control. Control the conversation, and most of all kino. When going on a date/get-together, (which i do discourage), establish the mood immediately. You can of course change the mood from “polite and calm” to “warm and friendly” to “aroused and sweaty” during the course of the meeting, but why go the hard way, if you can jump right into “warm and friendly” or beyond in the first place.
Upon meeting the girl that you got to go out with you on the phone, make sure you act enthusiastic and make her laugh the way it was on the phone. . Be all smiles when you meet her, give her a big hug right away, try to take and hold her hand all the way to whereever it is that you’ll be going (women love hand-holding immensely) and watch her change from slightly nervous to happy, smiling, starry-eyed and glowing all over:) And remember - enthusiasm is contageous:)
Foot-flirting Touch her feet “occasionally” with your own under the table, say something like “hmmnn, are u foot-flirtin’ with me?” in a joking way. Look her deeply in the eyes (dont blink) while doing this, and continue using your feet. Do it the right way and at the right time with a chick in the right mood! You can actually proceed to rubbing each other’s crotches
with your toes under the table, then say “my bed is that way” and BANG! You’re IN! :)”
Kino is (for real) can definitely be the difference between getting and not getting the girl. It is the “saving grace” lol, of even the otherwise doomed supplicating “nice guy” approach. And in some instances, being the “nice guy” together with using kino might even be quite effective. Here’s why: the success of kino depends on whether the girl perceives you and your touch as a threat to her or not. You can be a rough and tough guy and still have the girl feel you are not a threat to her speficically, thus initiating kino will be easy.
I remember how mad I was as a teenager when met my girlfriend’s dad and he immediately liked me. I was doomed. I knew he thought I was such a good kid. In other words, I was safe, and not the kind of kid who would want to penetrate his daughter until she begs for mercy from above. He could trust me! A nice guy also usually just has an easier time having girls feel he is not a threat to them. Usually though, that is also his undoing, as he is consequently perceived as weak, neutral and non-sexual, bacically she can’t see him as someone she would want to fuck. But here is where the power of kino steps in. You are “safe” :), so touching and hugging with you is… well, very comfortable and safe.
However, before she knows it - touching and hugging with you moves from feeling pretty good to quite exciting to really electrifying until all that good, safe and friendly physical contact with you is going to make her start to feel that feeling deep inside her, especially if you were utilizing the time to run some patterns on her:)
So remember - kino really is the difference between getting and not getting the girl, getting laid or not, which is the point, isnt it? ![]()
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November 6, 2007
Great guide! The importance of kino can’t be overstated; it should be used ALWAYS with or without routines/openers.
November 20, 2007
yea dude kino rules
December 30, 2007
dood this guied is amazing dood i have been have a great relationship ever senece i read this guid KINO ROCKS!
January 2, 2008
I used to be so afraid to touch girls cuz I thought it would freak them out. But now, I’m touching almost every girl I meet, and they love it haha/
-Seraf
August 10, 2008
This is why restaurant servers are trained to “casually” touch a customer on the shoulder or elbow—research (and practical experience) demonstrates that the practice increases tips. People respond positively to being touched—but it does have to be “casual” to appear non-threatening or intrusive.
In June of 2008 “Focus” magazine published a report of research performed by Aberdeen University that showed that women were SIGNIFICANTLY MORE LIKELY to accept a dance invitation or give out their phone number when the request was accompanied by a light touch on the arm and a nice smile.