Apprenez à flirter par le contact

Kinesthetics : - Kinesthetics (kino) associe essentiellement un moment ou une période particulier à un contact ou à se sentir particulier. Les études psychologiques, sur plusieurs années, prouvent que le contact occasionnel pendant une conversation amicale fait rappeler des personnes les détails complexes d'une conversation plus redily après le fait.
La combinaison du kino avec l'interaction sociale est explosive ! Quand vous touchez une fille, les autres filles voyant ceci pensent sa normale ou même « bons » pour être délicats-feely avec toi. Maintenant vous pouvez tout à fait naturellement se déplacer dessus à toucher ces autres filles et ainsi de suite :). It’s quite simple - hug them, touch their hand sporadically and in A NON INTRUSIVE MANNER, that is, not like the desperate pervert we know we are:) So the idea is, you hide completely the interest you might have and at the same time you act really touchy/feely with them.

The trick is to start this early in the conversation. It has to seem natural, or otherwise she’ll begin to wonder “what the hell is he doing” Once you’ve developed that kind of touchy/feely flirtatious friendship, it’s easy to spawn other such ‘friendships’ with other women: They get really jealous (even if they dont know you) when they see you being close to another woman, and I think the punch is that, it probably does not trigger as much jealousy as it makes them (the “new” ones) feel comfortable - they see another woman being touched by you in a non-threatening way, and WALLA, they want it too! Its like social-proof to them that it’s normal for you to touch them in turn… “

A good way to start your Kino is: If she says something, lean forward as if you aren’t hearing her very well, and touch her (arm or back). Then lean back again and answer. You can also, perform your kino whenever youre both laughing out loud. And since you’re that close to her just reach over over and kino on the shoulders. Are there any easy clues as to when is the right time to go kino? The clue is when it’s possible (ie, she’s within in range)”.

Touch Her! It doesn’t matter if you just met her. Start touching her lightly, on the arm, on her palm, hold her hand, rub her arm, her elbow her back, her shoulders, her hair, her face, whereever. Just be careful not to touch her breast You might be in for an embarassing slap

PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU!!!
PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU!!!
One more time: PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU !!!
Doing this will help you to judge if you have the appropriate rapport to invite a kiss. If her body seems to respond to the non-sexual touching then get gradually more sexual. For women some areas of the body outside of the primary erogenous zones are intimate: Palms, inside the elbow, ear lobes, cheeks, the hips were the waist meets the hips, between the fingers….
Do the things that lovers do - brush off “something” that’s stuck in her hair, gently stroke her cheek pretending to wipe off an eyelash etc. These are the types of things lovers do and by doing them, you will make her feel (doesn’t even matter if only subconsciously) like you were her lover. Plus you’ll get “innocent” yet pleasurable kino:)

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