How to make her horny

(By Derek Vitalio)

You have to penetrate a woman’s defenses. Getting into her head is a prerequisite to getting into her body.

1. Understand That What Turns You On Isn’t Necessarily What Turns Her On

Women do get turned on via their eyes; however, your favorite porn movie probably isn’t going to do the trick. Porn is still made, by and large, for men. Want to know what turns her on? Take a look through her magazines and books, think back over the movies she insisted on seeing, and you’ll get a good idea of what she likes to think about when she wants to get in the mood.  (or read this article on what attracts women)

Does she have any erotic literature hidden away? Read through it when she’s not around and get a good idea of its tone and feel so you can surprise her with a new book along the same vein. Don’t admit you’ve been digging through her private stuff, just tell her that a friend told you this new book really turned his girlfriend on when he read to her from it and see if she’s game to having you do the same.

2. Talk to Her About Sex Articles From a Magazine

A great way to get her thinking about sex with you is to get her talking about sex in general.

Flip through both of your current magazines and find interesting articles on sex where you learned something new. If it’s your magazine make sure it’s something positive for women, like a new position, or great tips on oral sex to give her more pleasure…but here’s the trick, don’t bring it up when you want to get some… bring it up when you’re out at dinner together, or on a way to a friend’s party. She’ll be impressed you’re thinking about improving your sex life together and the conversation will probably be steamy and enlightening for the both of you.

3. Flatter Her in Unexpected Ways

One of the biggest things women complain about is that men only compliment them when they’re already in the mood for sex and can’t wait to jump on them.  (read this article with the Top 5 things to compliment women on)

Stop flattering her when you’re already drooling and instead give her small but thoughtful compliments throughout the day. And flirt with her. Tell her she how great she looks when you pass her in the hall on the way to class, or when she’s on her way to work. Call her the day after she made dinner for you and tell her how much you appreciated it, leave a note on her car and tell her you’re thinking about her, bring her flowers just because.

4. Be a Tease

The great seducers are great teases. They know the brain is the biggest sex organ and they know how to get the mind of the object of their seduction teased into sexual interest in subtle, slight of hand ways without being overt and obvious. Just how sly can you be? Just how sweet and flirty can you be? Just how many ways can you insert seemingly innocent double entendres into your conversations together?

(Video:  How to Tease a Woman)

5. Indulge All of Her Senses

Plan a short road trip, or just a full day of fun, and consciously work on indulging all of her senses in sexy and imaginative ways. Make sure you smell great, wearing a touch of her favorite cologne (but not too much). Choose great sexy music to listen to in the car. Eat at one of her favorite restaurants, or try something new and exotic you’ve heard good things about. Spend time in nature in some place beautiful. Go to an amusement park and ride the roller coasters and eat some great chocolate.  Also, have sexy things to do when you have a girl back at your place.

6. Dress to the Nines For a Big Night Out

Most women love to get dressed up for a big night out. Sure they love to spend hours making themselves gorgeous but they also love to see how great you look all spiffed up. Take her to a play, the opera, and a concert, any excuse for you to put on a suit and tie and remind her why she was so attracted to you in the first place.

7. Take Her to a Sexy Movie

It’s the holiday season and that means romantic movies for adults are coming out, take her to see one starring the male lead she likes the most. Yeah, I know, you probably think it’s just a chick flick, but hey, if it gets her hot and bothered to see Jude Law making out with a beautiful co-star who are you to complain? If you can’t find one playing that she likes rent something romantic, sexy and foreign. The French especially make great movies with adult plots, and yes adult sex, handled in a tasteful but amazingly sexy ways that will have your girl ready to go before the movies even over.

8. Take Her Lingerie Shopping

Don’t come home with some bright red or bright purple pair of crotch-less panties wrapped up for her to freak over. No, here the idea is to get both of you excited with the adventure of lingerie shopping. Make an afternoon of it. Check out both the hot little boutique that sells the expensive European stuff as well as one of those new girl friendlysex shops that sells everything from seamed stocking to the latest sex toys. While you’re at it, buy a new sex toy together, let her pick it out. By the time you get home she’ll both be ready to model the lingerie for you and use the toy.

9. Surprise Her With Dinner and a Hot Bath

Tell her you’re going to take care of dinner for a change. If you can’t cook buy some nice things at your local gourmet grocery store and arrange them nicely. Create a great atmosphere with candles and some festive mixed drinks, or a great bottle of wine. Tell her to call when she’s on her way so you can surprise her by running a hot bath. Use bubbles (kudos if you buy her some new great smelling bath soap), light candles, and if you’re really romantic, sprinkle rose petals from the door to the bathroom.

10. Spend an Evening With a Few Red Shoe Diaries & a Great Bottle of Wine

Yes, they’re pretty tame compared to your favorite porn, but the Red Shoe Diaryvideos are pretty racy compared to what most women are use to watching. The stories are a bit silly, but the actors are great to look at for both sexes. And I guarantee after a night where you ran her a hot bath (which you might have shared), and you made (or brought in) a great dinner, after a couple of these films trust me, she’ll be ready to drag you off to the bedroom

These are all great ways to make a woman horny and get her aroused for you.

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