5. Indulge All of Her Senses
Plan a short road trip, or just a full day of fun, and consciously work on indulging all of her senses in sexy and imaginative ways. Make sure you smell great, wearing a touch of her favorite cologne (but not too much). Choose great sexy music to listen to in the car. Eat at one of her favorite restaurants, or try something new and exotic you’ve heard good things about. Spend time in nature in some place beautiful. Go to an amusement park and ride the roller coasters and eat some great chocolate.

6. Dress to the Nines For a Big Night Out
Most women love to get dressed up for a big night out. Sure they love to spend hours making themselves gorgeous but they also love to see how great you look all spiffed up. Take her to a play, the opera, and a concert – any excuse for you to put on a suit and tie and remind her why she was so attracted to you in the first place.

7. Take Her to a Sexy Movie
It’s the holiday season and that means romantic movies for adults are coming out – take her to see one starring the male lead she likes the most. Yeah, I know, you probably think it’s just a “chick flick” but hey, if it gets her hot and bothered to see Jude Law making out with a beautiful co-star who are you to complain? If you can’t find one playing that she likes rent something romantic, sexy and foreign. The French especially make great movies with adult plots, and yes adult sex, handled in a tasteful but amazingly sexy ways that will have your girl ready to go before the movies even over.

8. Take Her Lingerie Shopping
Don’t come home with some bright red or bright purple pair of crotch-less panties wrapped up for her to freak over. No, here the idea is to get both of you excited with the adventure of lingerie shopping. Make an afternoon of it. Check out both the hot little boutique that sells the expensive European stuff as well as one of those new “girl friendly” sex shops that sells everything from seamed stocking to the latest sex toys. While you’re at it, buy a new sex toy together – let her pick it out. By the time you get home she’ll both be ready to model the lingerie for you and use the toy.

9. Surprise Her With Dinner and a Hot Bath
Tell her you’re going to take care of dinner for a change. If you can’t cook buy some nice things at your local gourmet grocery store and arrange them nicely. Create a great atmosphere with candles and some festive mixed drinks, or a great bottle of wine. Tell her to call when she’s on her way so you can surprise her by running a hot bath. Use bubbles (kudos if you buy her some new great smelling bath soap), light candles, and if you’re really romantic, sprinkle rose petals from the door to the bathroom…

10. Spend an Evening With a Few “Red Shoe Diaries” & a Great Bottle of Wine
Yes, they’re pretty tame compared to your favorite porn, but the “Red Shoe Diary” videos are pretty racy compared to what most women are use to watching. The stories are a bit silly, but the actors are great to look at for both sexes. And I guarantee after a night where you ran her a hot bath (which you might have shared), and you made (or brought in) a great dinner, after a couple of these films – trust me – she’ll be ready to drag you off to the bedroom

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