Below is an opener I got from Joseph Mathews.   I highly recommend his book
The Art of approaching. To see more of it click here.

–The “Good-Looking People” Opener

This Opener works well if you’re not a “conventionally” good looking person and your target is quite good looking. This is also best to use in low-key settings with solitary targets (for example, standing in line). Basically, you walk up to your target, and say the following… (Shake your head in an exasperated way) “Hey, let me tell you something about good looking
people… we’re not well liked.”

You may have a delayed reaction from this one, but once people get the joke, you’re value will be raised in their eyes because it’s “smart humor.” And the fact that your target got the joke will make them feel like they are on your level of
intelligence, which will help validate them and open them up for further conversation.

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