Ceci article libre de séduction est pour toi si vous êtes l'un de ces types qui se sent comme il commet un péché cardinal quand il frappe sur une femme dans une barre ou n'importe où ailleurs pour cette matière. Si vous voulez apprendre comment prendre plus de filles, vous d'abord devez obtenir au-dessus de cette croyance d'erroneus.

J'ai une question pour toi : Est-ce que femmes apprécient pour être frappées dessus - ou elles peu disposées il ?

Si VOUS savez dans vos femmes de coeur-de-coeurs appréciez
il - égalisez peut-être l'amour il - vous sont bien dessus
your way to experiencing massive success
with da ladies.

If you’ve got the belief, though, that women
find men hitting on them more annoying than
nails against a chalk board you’re in big
trouble.

But DON’T worry, my friend, because you’re
in the same position most men are.

Many a man believes women hate to be hit
on - and rightfully so.

If you, for example, frequent the bar or
club scene you’ve probably overheard groups
of women yapping away about how they fear
and loath men hitting on them.

But if this were so, women would wear shower
curtains to bars and nightclubs.

But they don’t.

They, instead, wear skimpy little outfits
to maximize the amount of male attention
they get.

I’m gonna return to this train of thought
in a moment.

But before I do, I want to shed some
serious light on why believing women don’t
like to be hit on is akin to sentencing your
penis to life in prison with no chance of parole.

No hope of him ever vacationing in that warm,
cuddly place he enjoys dancing into the wee
hours of the morning to that old Digital
Underground song “Do The Humpty Hump.”

The only love he’s gonna get is from
Bubba’s nether regions.

Having this belief will cause a man to fear
and loath hitting on women.

He’ll, for example, think to himself: “If I
approach a woman she’ll see me as an
insidious little vermin she wants shunted
from her reality.”

If he does get up the gall to approach a
woman, he’s gonna have scrawled across his
forehead in permanent red ink: “I’m so
scared you’ll reject me, I’m about to poop
my pants.”

This will communicate to her, he’s a
consummate gimp. Women feel no attraction
for gimps. They feel attraction toward men
who are a Prize they’ve gotta win over.

Okay. I think I’ve convinced you of how
wretched this belief is. How it will pound
any future opportunities with beautiful
women into jelly.

But you might be having second thoughts.

Maybe you’re not fully convinced.

So I’m gonna rewind and go back to my
original train of thought: “The belief
that women don’t like to be hit on is
crap.”

If this belief ever crossed paths with
the Food & Drug Administration they’d
stamp it with an official FDA seal
saying: “100% Certified B.S.”

Why do you think women spend so much
time - sometimes hours - primping and
preening themselves to go out to nightclubs
and bars?

Because they want to be hit on.

There’s a school of thought, though, that
says: “Women don’t dress up for men; they
do it for other women.”

I think there’s a grain of truth here but
what this means is that women dress up to
compete with other women for male
attention. For male validation.

In other words, one of the reasons women
put time into primping and preening
themselves is to compete for who gets hit
on the most by men.

Many a woman will never explicitly admit
she enjoys men hitting on her.

If she did, she’d risk other women
perceiving her as being at the top of
the Slut-O-Meter.

Or, even worse, people thinking she’s a
power hungry rhymes-with-witch.

Wanting to be hit on is one of women’s
dirty little secrets.

Think of those stupid, gossip magazines -
such as, Enquire and Star. Almost everyone
talks about how stupid these publications
are and claims to have never picked one up.

This is B.S.

If most people didn’t read them, their
circulation wouldn’t be so widespread.

The lurid reality is this: Most of us can’t
wait to get our dirty little paws all over
these magazines while standing in line at
the supermarket.

A lot of us have too much pride to admit
it.

But almost all of us get picked up by our
lapels and sucked into the contents of
these papers.

Same holds true with women. Most women
claim, they hate when guys hit on them.

But most women love it. They can’t get enough
of it.

But they’ll never admit it. It’s their
dirty little secret.

When you make no apologies for hitting on a
woman and convey the belief that by YOU
hitting on her you’re doing her a favor, it
lets her know she’s dealing with a real man
who’s a Prize she has to win over.

If YOU believe women want and love to be
hit on, you’re half way to massive success
with women. All you’ve gotta do is learn
the right way to hit on women.

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