The Boyfriend Destroyer: Part II
This is one of Ross’s most controversial patterns.
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Note: Originally, I taught this pattern to be used if she
brought up the boyfriend objection when you first asked her out.
With all the other patterns I’ve shown you, I’d only use it now
if she brought up the boyfriend as part of an objection to
getting physical or after you’d been screwing for a few weeks.
Her:
I’m sorry … I can’t keep seeing you. I should have
told you before, but I have a boyfriend. (or, as you
are making out like crazy)
Her:
We really shouldn’t be doing this. I have a boyfriend
You:
But I’ll tell you what really fascinates me. It’s
like, what’s this guy’s name you’re going out with?
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February 8, 2008
… ummm…. so nlp is a bunch of fucking “discreet” symbols and signing to suggest she forget about this guy and blow you? This stuff is a joke.
February 8, 2008
i dont know if its a total joke. this is a style i dont know a lot about, because it would never work on me…. BUT
if she is already there and she already crossed a line she didnt intend on crossing in the first place…well, she probably WANTS to go further.
maybe she just needs some justification, or wants to see a little more effort on your part. i think a girl like that is just dying for a reason to do more. she’ll jump on ANY kind of reasoning as long as you provide it.
February 8, 2008
Hmmm, thats a wonderful insight athena, never really thought of it that way.
I was first interested in NLP, probably because at the time i discovered the game, that was one of the most encouraged style.
Although, using this effectively could work, its still kinda degrading if you’re going to use some form of hypnotizing to get the girl.
Even though seduction is based on being discrete, hypnotizing is crossing the line. Thats my opinion newayz.
Pzz
February 8, 2008
I never really liked NLP patterns, however I do think NLP has some interesting techniques you can incorporate.
The only thing I ever would do with NLP is an anchor, that is when you anchor a certain physical touch with an emotion she is feeling.
Example. You are on some romantic date and something happens where she just gives you that look. Do something to her physically, but make it unique. Grab her hand in a certain way or rub the back of her neck.
Anchor a physical touch with the current mood. Then at a later time you can reignite this feeling “somewhat” by using your physical anchor.
I personally feel NLP patters are borderline creepy. Use parts of NLP and it’s techniques to enhance your game, but I would stay away from the patterns.
Concentrate on your natural game.
February 8, 2008
thats the way right there mike,
i remember awhile back i read a nlp pattern thats was called the door, idk if it was here or somewhere else but it was soooooo fucked up to do idk how someone could do it to another person specially someone they like