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Datum: Gezeten, brengen 18 2006 00:12 in de war: 44 -0800
Van: „Rekening Lopez“
Onderwerp: RE: Re: Sommige antwoorden op tests/BS?

Hey George

Dit herinnert me voor seminariepraktijk.

De capaciteit zou een vraag niet om te beantwoorden grote exerciese maken. Wat
de mensen hebben een sterke aandrijving om elke vraag te beantwoorden alhoewel zij het weten
beter.

Één meer Ding.

Dat virusdude is opnieuw tot het.

Rekening

>Van: „George“
>Antwoord-aan: seduction_dating@yahoogroups.com
>Aan: seduction_dating@yahoogroups.com
>Onderwerp: [het seduction_dating] aangaande: Sommige antwoorden op tests/BS?
>Datum: Thu, 16 Mar 2006 21:21:26 -0000
>
>Hi Chris,
>
>First the overall principles:
>
>1) Always keep your answers short– don’t overexlplain.
>2) Distinguish between qustions that signal interest in you(IOIs) and
>manipulative questions
>3) Remember, you do NOT have to answer every question just because
>someone asks it.
>4) If you can’t think of anything right away to say, ask her a
>question before you answer her question. Get her to jump through your
>hoop. [This can be your default response]
>5)It’s perfectly OK to say “I don’t know”.
>
>With that out of the way, I’ll give you my answers:
>
>
>— In seduction_dating@yahoogroups.com, “chris claridge”
> wrote:
> >
> > Can I get some input on some of these questions/statements/BS.
> > These are some of the ones that I never seem to have a perfect
>answer for.
> > I either cave in and act like a wuss, or 180 opposite, I get hostile.
> > Field tested answers please.
> > ———————————————-
> >
> > 1) Why didn’t/don’t you bring me any flowers ?
>
>I give flowers for special occasions ony. Not a word more.
>
>
>
>
> >
> > 2) Aren’t you going to pay for it ?
> > (right when you get food/drink and she gives a blank stare, or says she
> > assumed you were going to pay for everything)
>
>
>Never happened to me like this because if I invite, I pay. Period.
>
> >
> > 3) Don’t you want to be my friend ?
>
>Is this “Let’s just be Friends” type of situation? It used to happen
>to me long time ago, but not anymore. I learned to respond with “I
>have ENOUGH good friends” and shut up. The ball is in her court.
>
>
> > 4) So, do you have a girlfriend ?
>
>Sure, this happens when she is interested. I don’t have a girlfriend,
>but I do date. (she knows what “date” means)
>
>
> >
> > 5) What do you do for work ? (hidden message: how much money do you
>make)
>
>It doesn’t have to be…I don’t just tell her “I’m X” — I describe it
>creatively.
>
>But if I sense she is asking how much I make, I keep it short and say
>”I do well”. Period.
>
> >
> > 6a) I want a guy who knows how to treat a lady.
>
>Get more information from her– don’t assume you know what she means
>by it– “What do you mean?” and the focus is on her.
>
>
>
> >
> > 6b) I just want a nice guy.
>
>Get more information from her– don’t assume you know what she means
>by it– “What do you mean?” and the focus is on her.
>
>Don’t let the “nice guy” lable trigger a hissy fit from you. You
>really don’t know what she means by it. Draw her out and then respond.
>
>
> >
> > 7) I don’t want to have sex tonight because you’ll think I’m a
>slut/won’t
> > respect me.
>
>Again, the response should be short. “No problem.” Don’t explain and
>do NOT get angry whatever you do. Keep doing what you were doing.
>
> >
> > Spending time with, or eating dinner with a girl, and she answers
>the
> > cell phone and starts yapping. I know what Tom Leykis would
> > say…..wondering if there are any other clever solutions.
> >
> > Chris
>
>First of all, I don’t do dinner dates unless we’re sleeping together.
>
>Second, I do drinks/coffee get togethers instead and I make it a point
>to turn my cell phone off in front of her and make sure I mention I’d
>like to spend this time without any distractions. Most will turn their
>cell phones off unless there is a phone call they must take.
>
>Hope that helps.
>
>Warmly,
>George

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