这变戏法者网上习艺路线的另一就职。

如何有好Vibe 由Juggler 

我们有忽略了事重要。 至今，我们谈论了
您的方法的临床部分-什么要做和为什么。 但
在交谈物体光点仅有我暗示您的vibe -
您感觉对妇女的方式。

如果他们想要谈话，妇女在前三十秒内决定
与您。 所以最重要的事，当参与a时
奇怪的妇女是您的vibe。 您应该努力是友好的
命令。

*是足够大声。 记住，大声的人不惊吓人，沉寂
人。 When you are loud enough you send a message that you
have nothing to hide. Women feel comfortable around men who are
not hiding something. Quiet men are described as creepy.

* Keep your hands out of your pockets and at your sides. Don’t
clutch a drink in front of your chest as a shield. The most
confident postures are often the most vulnerable feeling but push
yourself to keep your hands down and out of the way.

* Make it easy on yourself. Confident, attractive men value
themselves enough to make it easy on themselves. For instance,
when talking with a woman who is sitting down don’t just squat
until your knees burn; say to her, “I’m enjoying this but I need
to sit down. Can you move over so that I can sit down?” If she
says no then go talk to someone else.

I have seen men crane their necks to talk to a woman at the bar
who is not willing to turn around and make conversation easy for
him. Don’t be that guy. Ask her directly to turn and face you.
Engaging women should look and feel easy for you.

Use introductions. When you see a woman in a group who is
standoffish, charm one of her friends who is warmer, and have her
introduce you. It is always more suave to be introduced because
it takes less effort on your part. (see my blog on social game
here at http://www.charismaarts.com/blog/Juggler/34 )

* Ask for something substantial. “Tell me a secret you have
never told anyone.” Confident men who value themselves are
comfortable asking a woman to make an effort.

* Make more statements, and eliminate close-ended questions when
possible.

* Smile and express when you are talking, but keep a neutral
expression when listening.

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