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5 Steps to a Great First Email by Dave M
I’ve gotten a TON of emails from guys asking about the
HOW CAN YOU CREATE EMAILS THAT GET HIGH
Well, you’re in luck, because today I’m going to show
you exactly how it’s done. I’m going to give you a
simple 5 step formula to create a killer 1st email that
will get you more responses than ever.
The 1st step in dating any women online starts with
the 1st email. If they don’t respond then you can’t
get a phone number.
Sooo, the question becomes how do you get a woman
interested enough to respond to you?
Remember she’s getting hit with a lot of emails daily
and from what you know most of the emails are horrible.
Make sure your email is NOTHING like the ones
you’ve gotten if you set up a ‘Recon’profile.
Knowing what most guys are writing will help you
avoid the mostcommon pitfalls. Remember its all
about the recon.
you need to create a template.
As you know I’ve got this stuff down pat, and in the
program I actually show you step by step (in video)
exactly how I craft these. I’ve got over 8 of them for
all types of situations with more updates as I test and
develop new ones. Now I’m going to let you in on a
big secret and show you how I do them right here, right
now in this email.
So without making you wait any longer….
Heres the way I’d do it:
You want to make her seem like she might not be
‘average’ I mean lets face it, what girl wants to be
Hey, my name is ____ I read your profile, thought you
seemed kind of interesting, but I’m not too sure about
2. Mention something funny about all the emails she’s
getting (if you set up the fake profile, use the emails
as the jokes.)
This is why I wanted you to set up the fake profile as
well. See there IS a method to the madness!
3. Mention something about her profile that you found
This is where you’re going to customize the template
each time for each girl… this way she assumes its an
email just for her.
4. Ask her a question about something. she’ll respond
essentially qualifying herself to you.
Like: favorite type of food, favorite outdoor activity,
favorite music…. anything to get her involved and to
5. Tell her something like:
She seems cool and interesting and you’d like to get
together for a drink sometime.
Thats a simple 5 step process you can use right now,
to get more responses than ever.
Again, you’re going to want to phrase this the way
you speak because if not there’s a ‘disconnection’ from
the emails to the person and when she finally meets you,
she’s expecting someone else.
THAT is the reason why me giving you something specific
TRUST me, when I did that from David d’s emails I got
a response but guess what happened?
When I met these girls they were expecting someone
else NOT me!
I used to hear the girls say: ‘I was expecting you to
Yeah thats what you want to hear when you meet
someone you may be interested in. NOT!
Guess what? I blew it with each and every one of them,
until I realized that I had to take the material and make
it my own.
Thats what I want you to do, take what I teach you and
make it your own. Turn it into your own personality, add
your own words and add your own flair to it.
THEN you will enjoy a massive amount of success.
If you thought this was good, wait till you get a copy of
the program, where I break it down even further. You’ll
be able to see in screen capture video the exact sequence
I use to create each email I use for every scenario
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