이것 픽업 예술 회보는 두려워한 음성 메일을 취급한다. 실제로 두려워하는 그들을 위한 실제적인 조언이다 음성 메일을 남겨두기 콜걸 처음으로 때.

좋은 음성 메일을 남겨두기 Jay Valens의 

여아이라고 처음으로 칭한 당신이 이제까지, 그녀를 얻어 있다
음성 메일은, 무엇을 말하기 위하여 또는 허가 조차 a에 모른 경우에
메시지 전혀?

우리의 DVDs에 너희들을 위해, "픽업의 예술", 할 것 같다
당신은 당신이 이제까지 있다 것이 보다는 전화 번호를 아주 많게 얻고 있다
before but are now running into the issue of follow-up and how to
deal with the dreaded voicemail. We cover follow-ups a lot in the
main DVD but here’s some additional advice in regards to voicemail.

First of all, it’s not so bad.

Well… for MOST guys it IS bad, but not for readers of the Pickup
Arts newsletter!

First, let me tell you what kind of messages most guys tend to
leave on a girl’s voicemail. If you recognize any of this as being
the type of messages you used to leave, feel free to cringe:

“Hi Bertha, it’s Bartholomew. It was really nice meeting you
yesterday and I was wondering if you’d like to get together and do
something sometime? Give me a call back when you get this. My
number is 555-666-7777. Talk to you later. Bye.”

Eeewwwwwww……

For those few of you who actually got calls back after leaving such
messages, I congratulate you on your ability to luck out on the
lottery on a pure fluke.

The fact is, a typical girl who gives out her number to many guys
will hear that kind of message so many times it almost becomes
comical to her… but mostly pathetic. If she replies to it at all,
it will be on a whim or because the guy managed up to that point to
do everything else right to totally attract her.

But here at The Art of the Pickup industries, we don’t leave such
things to chance!

First, let me help you understand why that typical message is so
bad:

- It smacks of desperation.
- It has a non-authoritative tone.
- It gives a vibe of uncertainly.
- It leaves her in control.
- It’s too polite (weak).
- Almost everything said is obvious.

It also depends on the girl to actually call back for the next step
and that is BAD because girls practically NEVER call guys back even
when they’re attracted to them. Did you catch that? They almost
NEVER take initiative on their end to call back, even if they like
you.

I wonder how many girls you waited on to call you back never did
and then you gave up on them? Hmmm… maybe a topic for another
newsletter?

Anyway, you may be wondering what kind of message to leave. You
may think it takes an amazing story or magical words. Nope. All
it takes is an easy-going tone and a few words: “Hey Bertha, it’s
Bartholomew. I guess you’re not around. I’ll try you again another
time.”

9 times out of 10, I get called back within a few minutes. Leaving
any other kind of message, or not leaving a message at all, less
than half will call back and some of them will take a while.

I’m not saying you’ll for sure get that 9 out of 10. But I am
telling you that with all other things taken care of properly, and
so long as she has SOME interest in you, she will more likely be
responsive to that kind of message than the pathetic example I gave
first or even other typical messages you may be used to leaving.

Now I will tell you WHY because when you understand WHY you are
better off and will be able to apply that understanding to other
situations with girls…

The first example, which most men seem to get stuck on, gives away
all mystery and sends the wrong vibe: “I am pursuing you, I am
interested in you, please get back to me, I’m like every other guy,
now the ball is in your court.”

In MY version, there is no vibe of needy pursuit, an ambiguous
interest, no specific request, and no similarity to all the other
pathetic messages she gets from guys. It also keeps the control on
my end because I don’t even ask her to call back, I vaguely state
that I’ll try again “another time”.

When girls hear this kind of voicemail from a guy they just met and
whom they might be interested in (they DID give their number to
him) and he keeps control of the schedule and vaguely states
“another time”, they wonder “When? What other time? Will he call
back today? Tomorrow? What did he want?”

If in the chance she doesn’t call back in a reasonable time (within
under a day), I can call back and it will not come across as my
always trying to reach her because I maintained control on my end
and did not send a vibe that I was anxious for her to call back.
Usually if I have to call back, my message is even SHORTER and MORE
laid back: “Hey it’s me. I’ll try again later.”

Part of the killer aspect of this kind of voicemail is the creation
of curiosity, but what really solidifies its effectiveness is the
casual easy-going tone. It also does not put the pressure on her
to feel that by calling back she’s committing to something.

You can set up a meet with her AFTER she calls back or when you
actually reach her, don’t do it on voicemail.

I’ve heard some guys give advice about starting an interesting
story in a voicemail then cutting it off, with the presumption it
creates curiosity. Sure, it might, but I have to laugh because
women have good radars and more often than not it will come across
as a ploy and most times when women sense a guy trying to pull off
a ploy they associate it as unattractive behavior.

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