这一篇好文章 权力争夺在关系之内 从Sebastian 掌握Vibe - Bobby

在关系 由Sebastian ·德雷克

我们谈关系，我的人。 很多时期，人发现它
滑稽加重他的女朋友。 有时看见的女孩新闻
什么反应他们可以离开他们的人。 权力争夺是
所有太共同在关系，而是许多时期人不平衡
体会他们有他们。 他们可以开始早在之后
接近。

您想要离权力争夺远点和这为什么-力量
奋斗只发生，当它不确切谁是负责的。 如果a
girl engages a guy in a power struggle, it means she’s seen some
value in him but he’s also expressed that he might not be in charge
of the situation. Many guys who’ve never had women react
meaningfully to them relish this new attention, but it’s not a
great place to be.More…

When value is clear cut and who is in charge is unquestionable,
power struggles do not happen. Look at how most leaders act - they
don’t engage people in back and forth nonsense, nor do they let the
other person get under their skin. They remain simply - unbothered.
They’re usually polite, friendly, and supportive of those around
them.

People turn into struggling for power when they’re not sure who is
in charge, and would like the situation to resolve itself. Instead
of engaging in power struggles, I recommend you rise above them.
This can be done as simply as with the “small shrug” - it’s a shrug
that starts and ends in the time it takes to see “meh”. If a girl
is trying to provoke you, or saying something inflammatory or
silly, you can simply shrug to good results.

If she persists in trying to antagonize you, remove yourself.
Remember, if you’re high value, spending time with you is a reward.
And at the same time - for whatever perverse reason, most people
like to get an emotional reaction out of another person. Yelling at
someone can often be a reward, if it shows them they matter.

So to really punish a girl trying to engage in a power struggle?
Remove yourself. Shrug once. If she persists, tell her gently with
a light smile to knock it off. If she keeps it up, excuse yourself
politely - she’ll get the message.

And remember to act confident and lead people, be strong for them
and help them be the best they can be. The more you grow and
develop into a strong, masculine leader, the less often people will
even try to engage you in power struggles.

God bless,

Sebastian

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