Un pedazo muy muy muy muy verdadero de Badboy.

Fije las prioridades por Badboy 

Veo a porciones de individuos en la comunidad de Seduction incurrir en la misma equivocación repetidamente, mirando donde están sus prioridades… A saber, dejando la recolección asumir el control su vida. Los individuos pasan todos sus foros de la lectura del tiempo, descargando cada vez más el material, estudiando la filosofía de cada gurú y se convierte en eventual su vida entera. Los individuos comienzan a mirar el mundo como un sarge grande y a perder la capacidad de actuar como una persona normal con los amigos y otras prioridades en su vida. Esta es la razón por la cual tan muchos individuos que usted satisface en la comunidad son el coger extraño. There are plenty of great guys in it, but also a lot of weirdos. Make an effort to be a normal person before being a mPUA… You’ll be happier.

Pickup should be just one of the hobbies you have. Don’t spend more than 2-3 days a week on it and don’t spend all your free time trolling the internet for more info… Learn what you need to to so that you are getting results but then just go out and have fun, go to the gym, do some reading, play sports, learn something new…

Girls love guys with a genuinely good lifestyle which is why guys who obsess over only pickup are actually hurting their chances with girls. What they are doing is putting women and their need for validation above all other things and the gaping void that forms in their life because of this will be subcommunicated eventually and drive girls away. This is a horrible dynamic to create in your life. Sitting in front of a computer, reading forums and spending hours worrying about what opener to use is the worst lifestyle you can have. Your pursuit of women should be a small facet of your overall well developed lifestyle; not vice-versa.

Go out and make some friends. Real friends. Not just community guys. It’s stupid if all the people you hang out with are community guys. If you do so, you are limiting yourself from all that life has to offer

Starting out, of course take a workshop to get you on the level where you can continue to progress by yourself, then take community guys(wings), and train with them during the 2-3 days a week you dedicate to gaming. Other than that, make sure you have a balanced, interesting, fulfilling life and you will get much better results than if you spend 20 hours a week “studying” pickup.

Start doing this today.

Best,

BadBoy

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