一个非常非常非常非常真实的Badboy片断。

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我在诱惑公共看见许多人多次犯同一个错误，看待他们的优先权…的地方 即，让搭便车接收他们的生活。 人越来越花费所有他们的时间读书论坛，下载材料，学习每位宗师的哲学，并且它最终成为他们的一生。 人在他们的生活中开始看世界作为一大sarge和丢失行动能力象一个正常人与朋友和其他优先权。 这就是为什么您在社区遇见的许多人是性交古怪。 There are plenty of great guys in it, but also a lot of weirdos. Make an effort to be a normal person before being a mPUA… You’ll be happier.

Pickup should be just one of the hobbies you have. Don’t spend more than 2-3 days a week on it and don’t spend all your free time trolling the internet for more info… Learn what you need to to so that you are getting results but then just go out and have fun, go to the gym, do some reading, play sports, learn something new…

Girls love guys with a genuinely good lifestyle which is why guys who obsess over only pickup are actually hurting their chances with girls. What they are doing is putting women and their need for validation above all other things and the gaping void that forms in their life because of this will be subcommunicated eventually and drive girls away. This is a horrible dynamic to create in your life. Sitting in front of a computer, reading forums and spending hours worrying about what opener to use is the worst lifestyle you can have. Your pursuit of women should be a small facet of your overall well developed lifestyle; not vice-versa.

Go out and make some friends. Real friends. Not just community guys. It’s stupid if all the people you hang out with are community guys. If you do so, you are limiting yourself from all that life has to offer

Starting out, of course take a workshop to get you on the level where you can continue to progress by yourself, then take community guys(wings), and train with them during the 2-3 days a week you dedicate to gaming. Other than that, make sure you have a balanced, interesting, fulfilling life and you will get much better results than if you spend 20 hours a week “studying” pickup.

Start doing this today.

Best,

BadBoy

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