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I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. I am fascinated with improving our general well-being. It can be done. It must be done. Find me on Facebook, lets talk more.

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I must say that I have been somewhat of a fan of Zan since reading some email interactions he had with a girl. The emails were posted on Cliff’s List and I thought that they were hugely entertaining and taught me something valuable.

What Zan taught Bobby Rio is never apologize for your desire for a woman. I mean other gurus have said it, but Zan made me believe it. Since reading those email years ago I changed my views on a seduction. It became much more fun… because my ego wasn’t at stake, my pride wasn’t at stake. The fact was I am attracted to women. I will not get to sleep with them all. Some will turn me down.. But so what. I should enjoy each and every interaction for what it is. Never put anymore value on an interaction then necessary. Just enjoy it. Zan seems to always be enjoying himself.

Here are three short video of Zan talking about eye contact.