Email molto dei tipi me mi che chiedo come maneggio le domande circa la mia storia sessuale dalle ragazze. La risposta corta: Li ritengo fuori. Alcune ragazze possono maneggiarle, alcuni non possono.
La risposta più approfondita: Bene, la domanda che la maggior parte delle donne amano fare è; “Quante donne hanno avete dormito con?„ Ciò è una domanda di vittoria di no. Se la vostra risposta allineare è bassa ammetterà il vostro inesperto con le donne. Se la vostra risposta è troppo alta ammetterà vostro un giocatore che cerca appena il sesso.
Ciò è una domanda che siete i la cosa migliore fuori evitare di rispondere a. Just deflect the question with sayings like “it doesn’t matter,”"haha wouldn’t you like to know.” I like to make a joke out of the question. I’ll tell her I’m a virgin. Or I’ll say something like “Only a few that I was in love with”(with a wink and smile) If you’re absolutely forced to give an answer I would stick with 8-10. Personally I tell girls mid 20’s but thats because I have a reputation amongst my circle and can’t really get away with saying less.
Also, never ask a girl how many guys she has slept with. I know its a tempting question to ask… but trust me no good can come of it. I get nauseous if any girl I’m dating has slept with more than 4 guys. I don’t want to hear it. I had a girl tell me 14 once, and that was the last time I asked. Plus if her numbers to small it will just make your seems that much bigger.
As for the other questions about your sexual history… you really have to feel the girl out. Personally I’ve done shit that will make most girls run for the hills.. unfortanately when I’m dating a girl I really like I feel compelled to be honest with her. I usually let things slip out little by little, some things I never tell (the sex parties in Brazil) some things I wait till she’s in too deep to get scared off (sleeping with 2 girls in the same night) But you have to be the judge of what your girl can handle. And what you can handle. Once you start opening up she will too. And sometimes you’re better off not knowing your girlfriend once got tag teamed in the bathroom of a frat party.
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September 18, 2007
I like to go way OVER the top when I describe. Something like “10,000, me and Wilt Chamberlain are having a competition”.
Definitely think this conversation should be avoided at ALL costs unless you’re thinking long term.
January 13, 2008
Way over the top really helps diffuse the situation I’d agree, I like to use that too.