多くの人は私が女の子からの私の性の歴史についての質問をいかに扱うか私に尋ねている私にE-メールを送る。 短い答え: 私はそれらを感じる。 何人かの女の子はできないそれを、いくつか扱うことができる。

より詳細な答え: それで、ほとんどの尋ねることを女性が愛する質問はある; 「何人女性持っているか眠ったとか」。が これはNOの勝利質問ではない。 あなたの本当の答えが低ければ彼女は女性とのあなたの経験の浅い仮定する。 あなたの答えが余りに高ければ彼女はあなたのちょうど性を捜しているプレーヤーを仮定する。

これは答えることを避けてがよいこと質問である。 Just deflect the question with sayings like “it doesn’t matter,”"haha wouldn’t you like to know.” I like to make a joke out of the question. I’ll tell her I’m a virgin. Or I’ll say something like “Only a few that I was in love with”(with a wink and smile) If you’re absolutely forced to give an answer I would stick with 8-10. Personally I tell girls mid 20’s but thats because I have a reputation amongst my circle and can’t really get away with saying less.

Also, never ask a girl how many guys she has slept with. I know its a tempting question to ask… but trust me no good can come of it. I get nauseous if any girl I’m dating has slept with more than 4 guys. I don’t want to hear it. I had a girl tell me 14 once, and that was the last time I asked. Plus if her numbers to small it will just make your seems that much bigger.

As for the other questions about your sexual history… you really have to feel the girl out. Personally I’ve done shit that will make most girls run for the hills.. unfortanately when I’m dating a girl I really like I feel compelled to be honest with her. I usually let things slip out little by little, some things I never tell (the sex parties in Brazil) some things I wait till she’s in too deep to get scared off (sleeping with 2 girls in the same night) But you have to be the judge of what your girl can handle. And what you can handle. Once you start opening up she will too. And sometimes you’re better off not knowing your girlfriend once got tag teamed in the bathroom of a frat party.

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