Zu viele Kerle springen in dieses seduction/PUA Material, das für die Zäune schwingt. Das ist, aber groß, wenn Sie ein Kerl sind, der auf den Nebenerwerben für Jahre gesessen wird, die, Sie eine wenig Erfahrung im Schlafzimmer vor Ihnen benötigen werden anfangen, mit 9 und 10s herum zu bumsen. Erinnern Sie sich „an Sie, nur eine Wahrscheinlichkeit zu erhalten, einen ersten Eindruck zu bilden.“

Zurück am Tag würden ich und meine Freunde benennen es „übend für das grosse Spiel.“ Jedesmal wenn wir ein Mädchen bumsten, das häßlich war oder, Fett würden wir es weg durchbrennen „zu üben.“ Und es funktioniert. The more comfortable and confident you get in your sexual abilities the more natural it will be for you to act sexual around women.

So whats the best way to do this. If your less than experienced in the bedroom I recommend going out and getting your self a fuck buddy. I’m talking about a plain Jane, maybe a chunker with a cute face, some one with a little baggage… your goal here is not to fall in love.. your goal is get comfortable being sexual. This means getting comfortable touching girls, talking sexual to girls, escalating.

As much as your ego must hate the idea of slumming. Do it. And don’t feel bad about it. Your intention should be to give her as much sexual pleasure as possible. Nothing more. You don’t need to promise her flowers and diamonds. If your fucking a girl right, she won’t ask for those things. Use each other.

Whats great about a fuck buddy is that because you’re getting laid a couple nights a week you won’t be so needy and hungry when your out hunting. Women can smell neediness a mile away. They can look at you and know if you “get laid.” And women want guys who get laid.

If your wondering where to find these fuck buddies. They are all over. They are at bars. They are on Match, or Adult Friendfinder. You probably work with one of them.

One of my favorite teachers, Derek Vitalio, has just put out a real interesting audio program called The Seduction Archtype series. I am actually familiar with the idea of archtypes and it should actually be your goal to play the role of one of these archtypes. Check it out.

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