Bobby爱掠夺赖利。 是他。 她slutty，热，两性，女狂淫互联网女王/王后。 可能它，因为她是从泽西的我的家乡不管怎样，但她刺激我的肥胖驴子离开房子。 我在您的面孔意味c’星期一，不知道那里是女孩那里象她投入了微笑。
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September 25, 2007
I met this nice cute girl at a frat party 3 weeks ago. The first week I knew her she showed up to two of our parties. Starting with the first night I met - we parted with a hug. I had lunch with her but then she kept on turning down my invitations to parties and stuff but she never showed up so I gave up.
A week later word got round to me that she was confused why I had given up the chase so I called her up and after hanging out with her, asked her out. The first date was dinner (I paid) and then we were suppose to see a band play (they never got around to). I tried to make a move on a bench in this nice little secluded park-bench but some drunk hobos and cops kind of killed the moment. We talked a lot and had a good time.
Eventually we went back to her place, said she wanted to call it a night but then invited me inside to watch Nip/Tuck with her friends. Yeah it was weird - sitting apart on the couch but I did my best with jokes about the show to lighten the mood. Later she escorted me to the door and lingered there - once again I kind of hesitated (room mate nearby talking). Yeah it ended with a crappy hug. I swear she wanted a kiss.
Since then we have both tried to have lunch together again but she keeps on getting sick (she planned the lunch). She wants to pre-game before dancing and doing stuff she has said and I know she’s socially liberal but I think she’s new to dating and doesn’t know what to do.
I’ve been trying to have a more assertive role (like “hey want to go to ____?”). She usually says yes (and sounds like she means it and is interested) but then she changes her mind. Either she’s timid and/or she is actually still sick. Its confusing. Any advice?
September 25, 2007
Are you creating attraction when you’re hanging out? Are you flirting with her (picking on her, making her laugh, touching,)
When you’re not hanging out with her how often are you calling? Are you giving her time to miss you or are you hounding her?
The whole “sick” thing is tricky. If she is sick you don’t want to be harsh and come off as a dick. But if you really feel she’s flaking on you then you’ve got to give her the take it or leave attitude.
The fact is that if you’re creating enough attraction a girl will always make time to hang out with you (unless she is truly sick)
If she’s blowing you off I would work on creating more attraction. Don’t hound her to hang out. Let her go for a bit. Work on some other girls. and occasionally send her a text. Don’t ask her whats up? or what you doing? or wanna hang? in the text messages. Just tell say something neautral like “class sux” just to keep you on her mind. But don’t call. see what she does.
worst case scenario… you’re in fucking college man… girls are everywhere getting drunk and fucking. SOME WILL- SOME WON’T- SO WHAT- SOMEONE’s WAITING
September 25, 2007
I never did date during high school or last year (either I slipped into relationships with a friend or had one night stands). I think she is coming from a similar background (haven’t asked about any past relationships). My fraternity brother who is friends with her room mate says that she’s timid, didn’t really talk to anyone else at the parties, and that I’m probably right that she’s nervous and unexperienced.
At the same time, her vibe is interested friendly. Its like she’s wanting to get to know me more but is nervous about closing the deal. She did after all tell her roomate that I was a cool guy she was interested in and was dissapointed that I had previously given up the chase (I didn’t call her for 6-9 days).
The last time I saw her was during our first date. We talked a lot (always tried to make sure she talked more and about herself) but we didn’t flirt. She mentioned before we headed off to our date that she needs to drink before she can dance (so I took this to be an IOI).
She cancelled her planned lunch with me last Friday (said she was sick and had missed her classes - this sick day sounds legit). We both went out of town and I called her Monday night to plan something for the week. So I would say I call her twice a week (on Wednesday lunch or weekend/night plans).
I’m suppose to have lunch with her tommorow. I’m gonna allow her to text/call me. I think the best approach would be to keep her distant, occasionally text her like you said, and the next time I see her give her “negs” and “close the deal” as they say. I meant to flirt with her on the date but didn’t know what to say or where to begin (flirting with friends or trashy sluts is easy - flirting with new girls that I respect isn’t for me).
I plan on telling her a story on how in the middle of the night while I was sleeping some bug scurried up my back real quick and recreate the sensation by running my fingers on her back. Would this be a good way of the touch/sending my intentions to her?
She going to her sister’s wedding this weekend and the next weekend, her and her room mate are seating with my frat at a football game. If I don’t have lunch with her tommorow - when should I text or call her? Would not texting her at all until the game be a horrible idea (or at least texting a neutral comment - possibly “I’m psyched about the Georgia game”)?
- Smith
September 26, 2007
Flirting with a repectable girl is the same way as flirting with a trashy girl. The girl I’m dating now is the most conservative girl I’ve been with.. slept with 3 guys in her whole life, doesn’t party… but I treat her the same way I treated every trash girl I was ever with. I bust her balls, i make fun of her, with a smile, I say things that crosses the line, then wink and take it back. Don’t worry about how she is. you just worry about attracting her. All girls are attracted by the same triggers.
There are a thousand articles on this site many of which talk about attraction. If you’re looking for some ideas read up.
I wouldn’t wait 2 weeks to call. But get her out of your mind. DO your stuff and call when you feel like it. Don’t make the call more important than it is.
Hey, I was in a frat too, trust me, there are so many chicks in college looking to fool around that there is no reason to over analze one girl. Keep her around. Flirt when yuo can. but if nothing happends or you get the feeling she’s blowing you off move on. She’ll come back!