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I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. I am fascinated with improving our general well-being. It can be done. It must be done. Find me on Facebook, lets talk more.

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We all need to decide what the hell we want out learning all this PUA stuff. Do we want to fuck hot chicks on a daily basis or are we like Jim looking for our Pam. Most of us probably claim we’re looking to bang as many chicks as possible when in reality we just want the skills to score that girl we’ve always wanted.

I’ve been in the position where I scored my Pam after years of flirtation and I can tell you just kissing her was more rewarding then any of the one night stands I’ve had over the years (and I’ve a had quite a few)

But my Pam dissapeared just as quick as she came… So the buildup was not worth the short lived payoff.

And for those of you who don’t get the Pam and Jim references…. Watch The Office for christ sakes, its hilarious!