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"³à¼®Àº °ÅÀýÀ» µÎ·Á¿öÇÏÁö ¾Ê´Ù. ¿ì¸®´Â Ç×»ó °ÅÀýÇØ ¾ò´Â´Ù - ¿ì¸®´Â ƯÁ¤ Á¢½Ã¸¦ ¿ä±¸ÇÏ°í ´ëÁßÀ½½ÄÁ¡Àº ±×°Í¿¡¼ À̰í, Áß´ë »ç°ÇÀÌ ¾ø´Ù. ¿ì¸®´Â Ä£±¸¸¦ ¿µÈ¿¡ ³ª¿Àµµ·Ï ¿ä±¸ÇÏ°í ±×µéÀº À¯È¿ÇÏÁö ¾Ê°í ±×°ÍÀº ÀúÈñ¸¦ ¼º°¡½Ã°Ô ÇÏÁö ¾Ê´Â´Ù. ¿ì¸®°¡¸¦ µÎ·Á¿öÇÏ´Â ¹«¾ù ¾Æ´Ï¿À, ÆÇ´Ü - ƯÈ÷ ÀçÆÇÇÏ´ÂÀÌ´Ù. It¡¯s not so much an attractive woman saying no to you that bothers most men - it¡¯s having to look inside and re-assess who you are. Putting weight on your worth as a man based on how well a woman responds to you.¡±
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January 8, 2008
This quote is very true. I¡¯m not really afraid of the rejection, just more of being judged by others and myself. I¡¯m afraid of being looked at as ¡°not good enough¡± and ¡°weak.¡± These fears used to always prevent me from talking to girls.
-Seraf