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One of the things that I noticed on my recent trip to Fortaleza, Brazil is that the women down there sure know how to look sexy. It was the second or third day down there that it finally hit me: These girls are masters at peacocking.
All the girls down there dressed to flaunt their sexuality. They would wear long dangly earings, pierced navels, four or five bracelts around their wrists, high heels, short skirts, shirts that revealed just enough skin to make you crave more, blue eye shadow…. sure some people might say they looked like prostitutes… some might even say they were prostitutes.. But what Bobby Rio will say is “They were damn sexy, and I couldn’t keep my eyes off of them.”
To me thats how girls are supposed to look on their nights on the town. Dolled up, for daddy!!Â
So the first thing I did when I got back to the states was make a list of things my girlfriend needs to add to her wardrobe. I went on line to Shopbop and scanned through the sexy shoes. Then I had her pick out a nice shirt with a sleeveless back, Shopbop had this short sexy denim skirt, and a couple sun dresses that unfortantely she can’t wear till Spring, but what the hell. Now I just have to convince her to get some piercings… and wear these panties that just spell trouble.Â
Well, between Shopbop and the tatoo I’m taking her to get, I’ve just dropped a fortune.. But its worth it.Â
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November 20, 2007
Hey you guys, i got a couple questions having to do with a few female(s) interest(s)/friend(s). See before i started listening to you guys i just didnt have the confidence to ask her out myself, my friends found out i have a shot, but, shes had about 2 boyfriends in the meantime because i waited too long and didnt know wut to do ya know :/, but now i have this new found confidence and i currently hold the intrest at least if anything of about 5 girls, but my main problem is kissing the girls, so as of right now im at the whole attraction at its peak thingy and building comfort but i dont wanna risk being a bad kisser, and not even being a bad kisser but kissing them at the wrong time. Like i know wut to look for and all but my main problem is timing and how to initiate the situation see, for example wednsday im goin over a girls house(the one i actually like) and were gonna just chill get to know each other and watch movies. Now i know i can prolly kiss her if i want and most of my success happens during the whole “cuddling” phase with her head on my shoulder and all and from there im good, but what im asking you is if there is any way to like not force but kinda send a subtle innuendo to like initiate things? like i know this is gonna happen; im gonna sit down and shes gonna like maybe sit next to me but like not close, HOW DO I GET HER CLOSER!?!?!? lol. And second we all know you dont have to be hott or anything for your guys’ stuff to work but like is there a way to get past the girls initial like auto-first impression of me? i mean like say she sees me and thinks “wow hes kinda big but hes cute(cause im not bad looking just a little big)”, but she doesnt really have interest instantly as she would with a “hott” guy? im funny, speak well, funny, and i play the whole cocky funny thing and all but are there any other things i can do to stand out as an object of interest while in the company of other good looking guys (like all my friends unfortunately haha)who they might be interested in, cause none of my friends are good wing men lol. now dont mistake me for being a wuss i am confident, my inprov is great , and i always hold control but i just like to be assured im doing things right. If you can get back to me guys that would be great, and i love the podcasts dudes.
November 20, 2007
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First, don’t worry so much about when to kiss her.. i used to kill the mood so often cause the whole time i sat there worrying when would be the right time.. i would wait for the conversaton to lead towards a topic that would allow.
no more. Now I get hand contact. Right away establish the kino (touchy feely) that way later on its not so akward. And kiss her when you feel like it. My move lately is to kiss her mid- sentence when she absoulutely least expects it. The girsl ive done this to have told me they loved it.
Play games with her. goof on her and tease her.. pull her hair, gently flirtingly push her further from you and say “not so close” keep things playful.. keep her guessing when you;re going to kiss her.
as for the initial attraction… just be the guy running the show. command the attention (not by seeming attention hungry) but by being the most interesting person there. the one that leads the group.. yet pays the least attention to the hot girls..
Bobby Rio’s last blog post..Christian Hudson?s ?Most Memorable Pick-up Story?
November 21, 2007
thanx for for the advice it makes a shitload of sense, and thanx for such a quick response too!
November 21, 2007
Haha yeah it’s sad how it is here in America isn’t it? Women seem to be afraid of the judgement for being “slutty” especially at work. I believe all the big wigs in washington or new york should let up a little, can you imagine how great we would all feel if we had a “frisky friday” instead of a “formal friday” ahhhh the world would be a different place!
Rubix’s last blog post..Been Busy
November 22, 2007
Yes I miss the days in college when spring rolled around and all the girls would start sporting their best summer outfits… ah memories