Plus de manières à de dire si votre amie triche
J'ai rencontré par hasard une vieille amie la nuit passée. Vous pourriez se rappeler la de sa camée dedans cette histoire. Laisse la parole juste vers la fin du rapport qu'elle était moins que fidèle. Il y avait cette maladresse la nuit passée. Ni l'un ni l'autre de nous prenant l'initiative pour aller plus d'et dire salut.
Quoi qu'il en soit, la voir m'a obtenu à penser à la façon dont j'ai ignoré le tout signes qu'elle trichait . I wrote a post a few months ago titled How to tell if your girlfriend is cheating on you. Contemplating everything last night I came up with a few more ways to tell if your girl is fucking around.
- Usually if your asking yourself that question; she is.
- She always keeps her purse near by.
- Her clothes smell of a new cologne
- She starts suddenly liking a new type of music.
- Asks hypothetical questions like “do you think its possible to love more than one person at a time.”
- She deletes all incoming emails and Myspace comments when they used to accumulate.
- She joins the gym and begins working out constantly.
- Your mutual friends are acting weird toward you.
- Spends a lot of time at the computer, especially when you’ve gone to bed.
- She’s got that “glow” you haven’t seen in years.
Can you guys think of anymore?
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18 comments
December 2, 2007
All of these are so true. especially #1. If you really are thinking she is. then she probably is. (unless you are then you’re just being paranoid out of your own guilt) Best way to avoid this is stay clear of girlfriends.
December 2, 2007
this is sorta obvious, but when she starts becoming flaky about doing things she onced loved to do with you.. thats a sure sign right there.
December 2, 2007
December 12, 2007
I got a couple:
1.sex gets worse(less involment on her part)or she don’t want as much
2.if shes one of them girls that is all at your side when u are sitting starts leaving space between yall(or sleeps further away from you)
3. starts to argue with you more
4. spends a lot more time with friends
5. brushes her teeth or showers more often
I could probally come up with more but AVOID GF’S
January 6, 2008
The real, and far more important question out there is, how do you tell if a girl is likely to be faithful before you become her girlfriend?
January 6, 2008
i mean boyfriend lol
January 28, 2008
i agree with another article here that said cheating is an event, not a character trait. BUT, i’ve done a LOT of questioning about this with other girls and have figured out that there are some character traits that make her more likely to cheat. they arent death sentences, but its good to keep an eye out for these habits before you get too far.
1- she hates to be alone. basically, she WANTS to break up with you, but is too wimpy to do it without someone else to jump to.
2- she cant call a spade a spade. if she hates to see the ugly truths, she will stay in a relationship she shouldnt. this leads to cheating.
3- she lies to herself. you can see this when what she says and what she does dont match up - and she doesnt notice. she actually BELIEVES the lies she is telling you.
4- she is too focused on guilt or obligation. i know it seems weird that a girl who feels guilty about everything would do something so guilt-worthy. im sure there is some psycho-babble reason for it, but its enough to know the connection is there.
thats the best i got, hope it helps, dragon!
January 29, 2008
Athena, you are the sh*t! It is so nice to read your comment. It’s weird, because I see 2 of those signs in my recent ex. I don’t believe she was cheating on me, but it was more like she didn’t trust me (we had been on and off a little over the years) and never got over it. 1 and 4 is what I am talking about.
I didn’t want to break up with her but it was too much, I felt like I was always walking on eggshells. This turned into a little of a rant. O well.
Nice to have you here Athena
January 29, 2008
i don’t know about you guys, but getting cheated on and completely crushed is one of the main reasons why i got into the game. i need to learn how to have so many options that i can always just say “next” and not let anything some phony bitch does affect my value as a person. david deangelos materials really shed light for me on why you cant give in to everything a woman says she needs, b/c youre shooting yourself in the foot. what i want to try to figure out is, does a relationship or a marriage ever get to a point where you can really connect with a woman on a level where u can truly do anything for one another and not have to play the game anymore? because i know my last relationship went sour when i became too nice and supposedly gave away all my power to her.
the way i see it though, if a relationship or a marriage is always going to be this constant struggle where u cant just relax and enjoy the other person for who they are (the way you do with your true friends and family) then i dont want to get married.. i will just never get too close to any1 and play the game forever.
January 29, 2008
i think getting fucked over by a certain girl brought a lot of us here… if i didn’t trust my gut feeling and take a lap passed my girlfriends house who was supposed to be studying… I probably would be married to a cheating whore and miserable…
January 31, 2008
A few to add to the list.
1. All of a sudden she starts working a lot of overtime, and her job really doesn’t call for it.
2. She used to get up 15 minutes before time to go to work and usually put her makeup on driving to work, now she is completely dressed and ready to go 1/2 an hour before time to leave.
3. Constantly accusing you of flirting and cheating when your behavior has given her no reason for to suspect you are.
4. She starts receiving text messages that appear to make no sense and even appear to be a code. Her claim is she is getting them by mistake but her facial expression says something else when she views them.
5. When you question her about any of the new behavior changes she has made, new hair, new clothes, OT, etc. and you can’t get her to maintain any type of eye contact during the talk.
February 25, 2008
There is only one true sign as far as I’m concerned.. if you notice your girlfriend starting to leave notes behind for you talking about how much she loves you - and that she’s going out to do this and that(listed in an almost itemized fashion). Then she’s trying to bluff harmless plans, but is actually just buying herself time.
These notes will usually end reminding you of something she did for you.. like ‘Honey I did the dishes’ ‘Honey I did your laundry for you your clean clothes are on your bed’.
All of this is an attempt to disarm.. these to me are the keys, and sure there are some false positives but paired with the ”If you think shes cheating she probably is” I believe these signs are unmistakable and might even allow you to get rid of her before it ruins your pride.
March 29, 2008
I was talking to a 2 barmaids in my local today and somehow got into a conversation with them about cheating - what they said surprised me - they said that if their boyfriend had a one night stand withsome one they wouldn’t want to know! Maube I shouldn;t be so surprised by this but i am and was wondering what every one elses preferences are?
May 14, 2008
Something my Mom told is….if your girlfriends honey hole didn’t have any real noticable smell before in the past and you haven’t had sex in awhile and the next time you do her honey hole has a noticable order, she has been with someone else….the jiz makes her honey hole have a not so pleasant smell.
May 20, 2008
If she is working late and she really is at work…..well then maybe there is something going on with a dude at work, at work. Being the last one out of a business is really odd.
June 5, 2008
I really appreciate this site.. I am in the process of cutting off my whore girlfriend. Its funny, I shud have knowin I was buggin when I sniffed her underwear and it smelled like a condom. But I was so in love that I told my self I was bugin for even smelling her underwear. I agree that if you think she is cheating she is especially if you are faithful you can feel it. Its hard but you can’t let them break your barier, the pain you feel is not worth it. My girl was going out every week end and coming home no earlier than 11pm. One time she told me she has never been faithful. Should have known. What wud make me so different. She also told me that she went to the mall with a male friend, like it was no big deal. lol I really can’t believe it. Be weary of pretty smiles there maybe skeletons crawling between the gaps of her teeth
July 30, 2008
Just want to know what yal think.. because i have been trying to figure out if my ex was creepn while we were together and i believe i have the answer but just wanna know what others think. So we were together for a year and some change. When in december 07 she stared making comments like “what if we saw other people for awhile” untill she just all out told me that she wanted to see if our relationship would last a month or two if we dated other people and it would make our relationship stronger. I felt she was cheating and just ended it. This was January 1st and yes we broke up on New Years. Then by like the 16th of January she was married and pregnant by another dude!!! iv been thinking like how in the hell coulld she have found some1 new that quick what yal think
July 30, 2008
Show-
Yes, yes she was. This is my biology lesson for the day. Women ovulate halfway through their period. Even on the miracle she was ovulating on the 2nd then went out and got knocked up on a fling, it would still take 6-11 days for the egg to implant. Then she’d have to realize she was pregnant, rope the guy into a paternity test (which would take another 3-10 days and no doc would perform the test until the 14th week), then convince him to elope.
If they didn’t elope…it was at least 4+ months, and that’s if they were greasing the wheels to make the wedding happen. I know a little something about this. There’s reserving a church and a hotel ballroom (which is no small task), invitations, catering, decorations, Bride and Bridemaids dresses and tailoring along with tuxedo’s for the Groomsmen. It’s a fucking black hole.
I do hope they eloped in Vegas, otherwise you were the very last one to know.
Sorry my man, your first clue should’ve been the ’seeing other people’ line. She had been fucking him for a long, long time.