Iedereen heeft daar eigen idee van wat grappig is. Wij allen hebben onze betekenis van welke stijl voor ons werkt. Ik denk de gemakkelijkste en meest efficiënte manier om uw natuurlijke betekenis van humeur uit te brengen ben zich op één stijl te concentreren en werkelijk hoofd het.
Voor me is het altijd een mengeling van verwaand en sarcastic geweest. Mijn comedic inspiratie is altijd geweest Vince Vaughn . I was a fan of his long before Wedding Crashers made him a household name. I would watch all of his movies and pay attention to his timing and delivery. His timing and delivery is ultimately what made the lines work.
My cocky sarcastic sense of humor doesn’t always work. Sarcasm is something that generally works better on smarter girls… I’ve learned that when I’m sarging drunken sorority girl types I generally have to tone down the sarcasm. It often goes right over their head and I stand there looking like an asshole.
I came across a good site that gives some lessons on developing a sarcastic sense of humor. If you’re still developing your sense of humor its worth at least understanding the basics of sarcasm. If used effectively its pretty fun and entertaining.
To learn how to be sarcastic check out this little tutorial on “how to be sarcastic.” The same site always has a good tutorial on “how to recognize irony.” Recognizing irony is also a really effective way to get laughs and show that you have a smart sense of humor.
If you’re looking specifically to learn how to make women laugh you can read the post on this site by Derek Vitalio.
And if you want to take it a little bit further David DeAngelo recommends reading: Comedy Writing Secrets, The Art of Standup Comedy, and The Comedy Bible.
What do you guys find works best for getting people laughing. Any specific styles or lines you like to use?
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January 13, 2008
One type of humor to stay away from is self-denigrating humor. If you are already establish with a group or clique as confident and self-assured you can use this type from time to time.
But never make it your main style for getting laughs. You may get people laughing but ultimately it lowers your status because they are laughing at you not with you.
January 13, 2008
For making women laugh, I usually like to bust their balls. I’ve always been a balls buster type and it’s worked wonders for me. It always shows I don’t women’s shit and I’m willing to rag on them so I don’t put their pussies on the pedestal.
For getting obstacles/men laughing, I usually like the neg/bust on the target. It gets them laughing most of the time.
Other time, you can find that your good mood/ “I like to have fun” attitude is always good enough to make people laugh.
-Seraf
January 13, 2008
idk I usually am sarcastic I got a rep for that, after I have atleast a day 2 I usually have inside jokes with them which most women like
January 13, 2008
Back in my other skool, me and the clown classmates would make the class laugh EVERY lesson, we always crack jokez.
What was really effective was infact cussing each other, not yo momma jokez, but just technical cussing with witty comebacks. It’s probably like an AMOG battle, but funnier and shows that you like to have fun and got high standards to defend yourself.
I sometimes use it on targets as a neg: “Oh lord…You laugh like a pony”.
Or if shez blabbing over shitty things happening to her life: “Get over it!” (Got this from a natural who used it on a 10, she kept on laughing on the fact he said it and HOW he said it, [Wierd? i know!] but she kept on giving him IOIs.
What I discovered too, was that I was great at sexual jokes (Whenever the topic cums up, I’m in the zone), and girls love this, I’ve got female friends who got BFs that always role-play, or add sexual innuendos only when they’re conversing with me, they may think it’s dirty, but at the same time they love it! It’s more based on cockiness with playfulness.
A side note on role-playing: USE IT! It’s really fun and becomes funny if delivered right. Pretend you’re a sugar daddy, or she’s a powerpuff girl or imagining each other high on weed or a married couple. (Say you’ll divorce her if she’s not behaving :P). Great for relationship building!
Most importantly, use kino as much as possible. The humour lowers their defences, so why not use it as an advantage?
So i guess my type of humour is alil mix with playful/cocky/sexual.
Pzz
January 13, 2008
wow, Kevin & i would totally be Bro’s if we went to the same school lol.
he uses alot of the same kinda stuff i do. especially with the whole role playing thing, which is something i love to do. the powerpuff girl line, breaking up with a girl, its all money.
in fact, im getting ready to use the break up line on a girl im texting right now lol
January 13, 2008
i completely agree about self deprecating humor.. this type of humor only work when you’ve already established yourself as confident and alpha. and only good in small doses.
Kevin.
im great at the sexual jokes too.. if you can pull it off without sounding creepy it is GOLD
January 14, 2008
I some how didn’t see Seraf’s post XD.
My other post was similiar to this..
But i totally agree with him, when it comes to busting balls, and using neg/bust on the AMOGs.
lol @ FredEx, hope it works out XD.
I think Humour is a very important element, and is really gained through experience, fortunately i grew up in a humourus environment.
But some how, I’m not really good at telling memorized long jokes :/ ..Perhaps more practice.
But i’m excellent when it comes to one liners that are delivered right.
I usually get them from comedy sitcoms/comedians or learn from a certain experience, to which i would revise the situation, make up a reply, so the next time i experience the same situation, ive got a good and funny backhanded reply.
Most of them tend to be cocky/funny.
I think Mystery with Matador explains this in a video, I’ll post the link if any of you want it..Or if i could find it lol.
Pzz
January 14, 2008
I kill with the cocky funny comments. It took a while for me to get the hang of doing it right, especially since in my afc days I was always the nice guy and never used any of it! Now all my afc friends just can’t believe that the stuff works. They all pretty much have girlfriends and/or oneitis so they refuse to believe that the things I do work, even though I prove it to them everytime we go out,lol… Hell even when they’re single they don’t wanna put in the effort to get good and always get caught in a oneitis situation… How do you get through to guys like this? I need some friends in the know!
January 14, 2008
ditch em..if i have any friends in life that just hold me back i find new ones…how do you find new ones? well i cant really think of how for some reason(maybe cuz im half asleep) but im sure someones gonna post ways