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I was going through the comments today and I came across two left by a girl going by the name of Athena. The first one was some great advice so I proceeded to read the second one. After reading the second one I decided that I should repost it to the blog for everyone to see and read if you were not subscribed to the post.
This one is from the first post More Signs Your GIrlfriend is Cheating
athena on January 28th, 2008 9:31 am 
i agree with another article here that said cheating is an event, not a character trait. BUT, i’ve done a LOT of questioning about this with other girls and have figured out that there are some character traits that make her more likely to cheat. they arent death sentences, but its good to keep an eye out for these habits before you get too far.
1- she hates to be alone. basically, she WANTS to break up with you, but is too wimpy to do it without someone else to jump to.
2- she cant call a spade a spade. if she hates to see the ugly truths, she will stay in a relationship she shouldnt. this leads to cheating.
3- she lies to herself. you can see this when what she says and what she does dont match up - and she doesnt notice. she actually BELIEVES the lies she is telling you.
4- she is too focused on guilt or obligation. i know it seems weird that a girl who feels guilty about everything would do something so guilt-worthy. im sure there is some psycho-babble reason for it, but its enough to know the connection is there.
thats the best i got, hope it helps, dragon!
This comment was on the second post 3 Tips For Getting Your Female Friend to Fall For You
athena on January 28th, 2008 9:00 am
if you want to flirt AND still act like you wouldnt touch her, you have to pretend its just a joke. laugh about it a lot. if you like to flirt heavy, make it like a game. you can play the “make her blush” game all day!
you see, flirting has more to offer than just hitting on someone. it can be fun, or entertaining, for practice, or whatever. just find something else that it offers and pretend THATS the only reason you are flirting with her.
remember to keep your distance. DO NOT get disappointed if you cant hang out with her, and dont always be available every single time she wants to see you. dont EVER kiss her ass, or talk like she is greater than you. be nice, just dont put her on a throne or act like she is out of your league. hope that helps!
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January 29, 2008
Thanks Athena, I hope you stick around and share the womans perspective with us.
January 29, 2008
Yes thanks Athena - the only thing this site is missing is a female to bounce ideas off - thats invaluable - I also hope you will continue to post on this site,
Thanks
January 29, 2008
wow, thanks! i wasnt expecting that! i found a lot of the information here to be very good advice. i’m straight, but have been helping my guy friends out for many years now. you DO need a guide when handling women - they just arent raised to think the same way. i mean, they COULD, but lets face it: every girl knows that SHE is the one who decides who has sex, and she can get it anywhere without any work at all. that automatically puts you in a different world. i’ve got a soft spot for helping out any guy who is willing to listen.
so thanks for listening!
January 29, 2008
Haha yeah athena, thanks for the women perspective advices.
Very useful information, the thing you said about flirting is definiately true.
Hope you stya here longer ^^.
Pzz
January 29, 2008
You need to start letting her just post articles too! Golden advice.
T.’s last blog post..Portraits in Charisma
February 1, 2008
That’s an interesting idea “T”, idk Athena, have any ideas for a good post? I’m sure you have some great stories
February 3, 2008
eek, i dont know. i can write the hell out of a research paper, but an article? any of the major subjects i think are REALLY important are already written about: like, how to be alpha and the progression of affection. i could go on for days explaining how the girl’s social structure is inherently different from a guy’s. but really all you have to gain from reading that is this: guys like looks first off, while girls look for status. again, there are already a number of articles telling you how to do this.
BUT if there are any specific questions i can answer them here, especially ones about how girls interpret your actions or what has worked on me.
February 3, 2008
great advice. especially the part on not getting disappointed when you cant hang out with the girl. and my girl just cheated on me, partly my fault cuz i was acting to aloof in regards to who she hung out with. but she hated to be a lone, i wish i seen that earlier.
February 3, 2008
lol the best advice i ever heard was from a friend of mine who is a major natural, but a definite god as far as getting laid. he told me “whenever your trying to get girls, just act like you already have a girlfriend, but are considering cheating on her..”
it works!! i guess it helps to get rid of your neediness, and it shows that you have something else going on on the side and it makes girls chase after you.
February 3, 2008
fred i think the whole act like a girlfriend works because u have the confidence and the DGF attitude, cuz ur not worrying if u get with her. so when u act like u have a girlfriend you really gotta seem like it doesnt matter if she responds or not
February 3, 2008
thats exactly it Teddy.
hey did you already recieve your prize??
im still waiting on mine to be converted to mp3 so i can recieve it online instead of in the mail, so thats why i havent hooked you up yet.
February 3, 2008
no mines getting mailed so it’ll be a lil while