それは私によってが関係からちょうど出ることであるバレンタインデーのまわりに毎年正しくようである。 私が端へ来ることを知っているおよび私は日の擬似動きによって行くことを耐えることができないのでHa ha多分。(または私はギフトのlolを買うには余りにも安い)ないあなたによってがにない女の子とかわいく、愛らしく機能しなければならないより悪い何も。
私の最もよいバレンタインデー: 2年前に私はカップル月のためのこの女の子ナンシーに日付を記入していた。 バレンタインデーIの頭部の前の3日リオデジャネイロに。 私は健康な週を…貴方達私がだったものを仮定してもいく過ごしし、し、そしてする 
I don’t call her the entire trip. When I get home we have “the talk.” She tells me she’s not interested in casual sex… if I want to keep seeing her she wants commitment. I tell her “then I guess we shouldn’t see each other anymore.” A week later she calls me up and says “I’ve decided I’m okay with casual sex.” We fuck commitment free for another month. She was a great lay too!!
Anyway, I thought I would post these Valentines Day tips from the guys at The Mystery Method.
Valentines Day Advice by The Mystery Method
Let me just say this: Unless you are either completely single or in one committed long-term relationship, Valentine’s Day is not your friend.
What you do on Valentine’s Day depends on your status. We’re going to go over:
- If you’re not “involved” with anyone.
- If you are involved with a woman but she doesn’t have girlfriend status.
- If you do have a girlfriend.
- If you have more than one girlfriend in the same city,
1) If you are not involved with anyone
- Do not contact a woman you’re interested in if she’s not your girlfriend or you and her aren’t clearly on that path.
- Do not send flowers, anonymous or not. Go “dark.”
- A day or two after Valentine’s Day (Thursday, February 14th), call her and tell her a funny story about something that happened when you were out with a “friend” on “Thursday.” Be subtle – she’ll put two and two together – and make your story take place somewhere fun and romantic but not over the top. Use embedding (explained in the storytelling chapter in Magic Bullets, or in the Love Systems’ Routines Manual version of the same). Make the setting the background to the story. A story about a woman taking off her shoes to dance and then seeing them slide over the deck into the water while you and your friend went on a dinner/cruise works better than a dry recitation of “we did this” and “then we did that.” The latter could seem a transparent attempt to make her jealous or would brand you as a player.
- Don’t ask her what she did on “Thursday” or “Valentine’s Day.” Assume that she was either alone or with a lesser man. Don’t react or be interested.
- Go out and meet women! Women who go out on Valentine’s Day are looking for romance and to feel better about themselves. Prepare for questions like “Why aren’t you with someone tonight?” and “Why don’t you have a girlfriend?” There are tons of great responses for these sorts of “tests” in the Love Systems’ Routines Manual.
- Don’t get drunk and get tempted to call someone you wish you were with.
- Don’t stay sober and get tempted to call someone you wish you were with.
- A mass text message of “Happy Valentine’s Day” to all of the women in your phone may prompt some women to text back, possibly revealing new or buried interest you.
2) If you are involved with a woman but she isn’t your girlfriend (or obviously on that track):
- This is the trickiest one. Valentine’s Day is great for women because it forces men to reveal their intentions. You may have been casually flirting with her and playing hard to get, but as soon as you ask her out on Valentine’s Day, she will know that your interest is serious. Unless she is equally interested in you, she will know that she can have you, and will therefore be more likely to be bored with the lack of a challenge. Remember, being Challenging is one of the eight attraction triggers from Magic Bullets.
- Yes, this sucks. No, it doesn’t mean she’s a bitch. People want what they can’t have, and women and relationships are no exception. On the other hand, if she’s into you and you don’t offer to make plans… you may be discarded for someone who does. Sorry. This can be a no-win situation. I didn’t make the world; I just live in it.
- The best bet here is to go out with a mixed group (either a group of singles, or include some couples once they’ve done the private Valentine’s Day stuff together) and invite her to come along. Keep it nice and ambiguous.
3) If she is your – one and only – serious girlfriend:
- There’s no way around this. Make the day special for her. Do the traditional date and do it right.
- Send her flowers, and send them to somewhere she can show them off to her friends. Valentine’s Day for women is in part a “who has the best boyfriend” competition. So send flowers to her work if that’s appropriate, or to her apartment if she has a few roommates.
- Don’t just send roses. Be creative. But make it nice.
- Doing the traditional Valentine’s Date means showing up dressed nicely (even in a suit). Make reservations somewhere nice and do something exciting afterward. And then enjoy how grateful she is.
4) If you are seriously dating multiple women in the same city:
- Get out of town. I’m serious. Most beautiful women will not accept seeing a man once a week or more, sleeping with him, and not getting to spend Valentine’s Day with him if he’s in town.
- Make it a business trip, a family emergency, whatever it is, leave before Thursday and don’t come back on Friday. That’s too obvious. Disappear for at least a couple of days.
- Send flowers to all of them and call all of them.
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February 12, 2008
haha good stuff.
i hope to have the problem talked about in #4 someday.
probably not more than once, but the experience of it should be worth the sure risk of it all lol.
February 12, 2008
lol I was talking w/fred last night about #4. If you’ve got mltr’s get the f out of dodge.
Nothing good will come from it.
February 12, 2008
I never was a fan of mass text, but there is no harm in trying it I guess on Thursday, lol.
February 12, 2008
Get out of town. I’m serious. Most beautiful women will not accept seeing a man once a week or more, sleeping with him, and not getting to spend Valentine’s Day with him if he’s in town.
Make it a business trip, a family emergency, whatever it is, leave before Thursday and don’t come back on Friday. That’s too obvious. Disappear for at least a couple of days.
Send flowers to all of them and call all of them.
hahaha ive heard this b4 but its good ass advice…
February 13, 2008
I would love to aim for number 1 but I’m stuck with school that night. Maybe Afterwords I will try to find good places, anyone know where a single woman goes on valentines day? Restraunts are filled with couples.
February 13, 2008
can’t wait to do this haha
awesome article Rio
February 13, 2008
ahh, I’ve recieved this email last week, very nice advice, considering its from the mystery method.
BTW Bobby, i thought it might be useful to post up this link, for those who are not involved with anyone:
http://www.bristollair.com/outer-game/routines/openers/valentines-day-openers.html
Its Valentines oepners which i’ve used last year, got really good results too.
I’m really looking forward to it this year, even though i got an exam XD.
Pzz
February 13, 2008
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February 13, 2008
Speaking of Valentines routines, I was reading todays New York Daily News and in it they had an article by Neil Strauss! I was so suprised. I’ll get a scan of it later.
February 13, 2008
Zeo you gotta throw that up here man i want to read it so badly
February 13, 2008
wow.. those openers were gold!!
good post, thanks.
February 14, 2008
wouldn’t this seem kind of desperate text just to talk to the girl.
i’m just saying this because i just received a text from this girl who is not ugly but not my type hehe and i felt that it was a desperate move from her to talk to me.
Is something wrong with me for getting to this conclusion?
February 14, 2008
Haha, yeah, i used them again this year.
Today, the weather was shit, and i had an exam.
But those openers are definiately gold. I opened a 2 set with my wing with “wheres my card?” My target was alil surprized, but still played along, and she ended up making me a card! LOL! Now i have to wait for the flowers and teddy bear she promised me
It was real fun considering the negatives..
Pzz
February 14, 2008
these tips are great for all year round…especially today! thanks
Rey’s last blog post..How To Kiss Your Valentine Passionately
February 14, 2008
I’m having no luck today on anything man, im supost to be at work and school but i skipped.
Thumbs’s last blog post..Last night was intresting
February 15, 2008
LOL! Now i have to wait for the flowers and teddy bear she promised me…..
lol kevin, how can she promise to give u me, like I’m a cheap slut
February 17, 2008
Lol, are you though? Haha.
Don’t worry, i’ll try to take good care of ya.
Jkz jkz
Pzz
February 17, 2008
Nice write up, but your forgot one group of guys out….
The married me with the girlfriend on the side….
What do they do?
raymondm’s last blog post..To Cross or Not To Cross. That is The Question
February 17, 2008
They make damn sure they dont get caught.
February 21, 2008
i am a slut, just not cheap lol.
and raymondm, if your married you shouldnt have a gf, if you wanted to fuck around you shoulda stayed single.
February 21, 2008
We’ll said Teddy, cheating on your wife is NOT a sign of being a real man…
February 28, 2008
Lol @ Teddy
@ raymondm: Whats the point of gettin married in the first place?
If you want polymarous relationships, stay single..A lil common-sense tbh.
Pzz
February 28, 2008
Mike, i kinda actually feel that it is in our nature of being a Man to wanna cheat on your significant other. i think i heard somewhere that its hardwired, and that alpha males and tribal leaders of the past have always had more than one lover.
but, in this day and age, i think marriage should be honest and valued. so if your married, and you really love your wife, i suggest not cheating.