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Gioco del messaggio del testo e del telefono
Uno dei lettori, orso del Teddy, introdotto questo alberino circa circa il gioco del telefono. Il gioco del telefono è definitivamente qualcosa che abbia stumped me… così nei sensi passati della lettura di amore di I sormontare l'ansia addetta esso ed usi il telefono come arma, piuttosto che qualcosa essere temuto. I love the way Teddy sets up this post… as it makes for a good cheat sheet to keep with you while you’re on the phone with a girl.
G.R.E.A.T. Phone Game by Teddy Bear
I never had a problem using phone game, I’ve even had a couple girls fall in love with me before they even seen me (I used to use the dating lines in Milwaukee). But those are a whole different post. Awhile back I seen some comments stating that
phone game was a sticking point for several people, so I figured it would be my first post. When I saw the comments I decided to tape a couple of my phone calls to see what I was doing. I came up up with some good material that I call “G.R.E.A.T. Phone Game”.
Just a couple things I should state before I get into it….
If you meet the target in a club or somewhere and did not have much time with her, stick with the initial quick phone call to set up a Day 2. If you had some time to build some decent comfort, make sure you set up a nickname for her (I can’t stress how good it is to do this!). When I talk on the phone I slightly lower my voice, not where it is like I’m trying to, and talk just a little slower. Also I always have a notepad next to me to jot down some key info from the convo and have some questions/topics to talk about just in case my mind goes blank. With that being said, I hope you enjoy this. It’s been tried and tested by me.
1) Greet:
Always open with “hey sweetie” or a already established nickname. Oppening with a nickname opens her with some fimilarity easing her concious. Plus it’s a inside joke/nickname you two have which pairs you together on a subconcious level.
Her:Hello.
You:Hey “nickname”, You miss me yet?
2) Relate/Reason:
Give a reason she was on your mind, but relate it to something i.e. Like a movie. Giving a good a reason why your calling eliminates her speculating that you were thinking to much about calling her. It creates that spur of the moment feeling making you seem spontaneus. She came across your mind and you just called.
3) Establish Emotion-
Here you got to get her thinking about something she has strong emotions with. Her favorite pet, her love of animals, the beach etc. Have her get deep into it by having her vivdly descibe her passion for it the feelings she gets (no this is not NLP, but works wonders). Establishing emotion is not that diffulcult over the phone. I actually think it is easier. All you are really
getting her doing is talking about positive emotions, and with her in that mindstate it relates itself with you. Think about a time where you met someone new and was in a positive mindframe and and those emotions come back just thinking about them? Make sure you avoid topics with bad emotions like a death or her ex. If you get her emotions running deep while she is talking to you, thosefeelings become associated with you.
4) Accumulate-
During the conversation and step 3, better yet the whole call and every interaction with her, grab as much info you can while avoiding the interrogating questions like “what do u do, what do you like to do,etc”. The more info you get, the more she feels like she knew you longer. Ask her things about her childhood, her neighborhood, etc. Truely listen and have her give details, make her paint the picture. By using this step you can have her feeling like she knew you for years instead of hours or days, which greatly increases her comfort level. I usually come up with a couple questions ahead of time and have them written down on my notepad just incase i draw a blank. Make sure to word you questions that get her involved in the discussion. Avoid yes or no questions. Jot down some of the info you get from her (which helps you to remember). Plus you can bring em up later in the convo or at another time. Stay away from religion, politics, and conspiricy theorys. Listen twice as much as you talk, almost all women love good listeners and just want to talk.
5) Timing-
This is an extremly important step!! You have to know when to end the conversation. The perfect time is right before the convo starts to lag, especialy while shes involved and still enjoying it. This leaves her wanting more and looking fowards to the next interaction. I usually break with “Well i gotta go because (anyreason), but you passed my first test so I guess I can talk to you again sometime.” I always end with the “Test” statement to arouse the curiosity of what the test was and why I was testing her.
With all of that I’m sure that all of you can really step up your phone game and have the women thinking about you alot more. Plus set up alot of day 2’s. I’m really anxious to hear your feedback and comments about this post plus how it worked for you.
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February 21, 2008
Great post Teddy… its a mice little game plan to look over before making the call.
I’d love to hear the recorded phone calls..lol
February 21, 2008
awesome man!! damn you made it seem so easy with this post lol. great stuff. oh, and myspace/email me when you get the chance.. i gotta talk to you about something..
February 21, 2008
Thanks for sharing Teddy.. I’m with Ace..ha ha I want to hear the recorded convos.. sort of like Master the Vibe
February 21, 2008
Very good advice but maybe a bit too complex to set up a day 2. I find most girls already know if they want to see you before you even call, so the main idea is keep it cool and simple.
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February 22, 2008
love the post. Personally I wouldn’t end with the test statement just cuz to me it sounds shady IMO. I might be a little paranoid though cuz I got called out again as being a PUA.
February 22, 2008
dig it, wish i had a chance to use this
February 22, 2008
thanks for the feedback yall. i might post the recorded calls like a MTV series and sell em …jk.
February 22, 2008
actually fred when i started writing it, it all just flowed. i was nervous about sending it in though lol, i waited like 2 weeks to send it, lol i had post anxiety
February 22, 2008
Comment by Roosh
“Very good advice but maybe a bit too complex to set up a day 2…”
yea stick to the quick call for the setup of day 2, unless u have built a decent amount of comfort. but i run into alot of girls who like to talk and dont like short calls, but this works for every call, not just when u first meet
February 22, 2008
I can’t wait to start using this. This is some great stuff.
-Seraf
February 23, 2008
“Great post Teddy… its a mice little game plan to look over before making the call.
I’d love to hear the recorded phone calls..lol”
deff do that record a phone call and post it here
February 24, 2008
This is a very good post Teddy. I like how you made it to a basic linear structure.
I have to agree with timing, i always used to make the same mistake. Its always best to leave at a high point rather than the conversation lagging.
And nicknames! Yes OMG i love using them, it became like a habit to me now, i got a nickname for every girl i know lool.
Thanks for sharing.
Pzz
February 24, 2008
A recording or a transcript of one of your best phone conversations would be very helpful to put your post into a practical context. You also completely left out the subject of text game.
February 24, 2008
Theres so many posts on text game now so why cover it again? Search them out bread. I agree that recordings are nice but much like a video if people “sarging” it really wont teach you anything it will just show you how someone else does it and in a way it says “you do this like me and youll have the girl too” but its not true, every method, every concept, every style has to have your own touch in it somewhere or else it wont work to your best potiential.
February 24, 2008
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February 25, 2008
I was just making an observation, my text game is fine
I do disagree that recordings and videos won’t teach you anything. Seeing how someone who has had success uses the material provides a real world example of how to effectively implement the material. It is just another tool to help improve your understanding of community material
February 25, 2008
visual and audio serves as a good reference material, i dont know if i want to add the audio because i dount want to put their private conersations on the internet plus i dont know if thats against the law, i might type out the convo, dont know yet
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February 25, 2008
well its not “your” most recent post but when you are the first one it will be. Let me work on it
February 25, 2008
Teddy, if you want you should take the audio from these calls (edit out the personal stuff) and somehow turn it into a video with static images. The upload it to this post as a video comment. I will enable them for this post, the link would be below the submit comment button.
This site goes through revver so any video you upload will earn YOU money through your reever account, which will be created when you upload it
February 27, 2008
The recording seems like a good idea. Typing it out in words seems alright, the only difference is the tone of the voices.
“This site goes through revver so any video you upload will earn YOU money through your reever account, which will be created when you upload it”
really? That sounds good :P, i would go for that teddy lol
Pzz
February 29, 2008
this is excellent advice, particularly about the stating a reason for the call, and the timing. i know the very first thing on my mind when i get a call from a guy is “why is he calling me??”
also, ending at the right time is VERY important. those awkward moments near the end of a conversation can just about kill all the hard work you did before it. you dont get a lot of chances to leave her wanting more over the phone, so you better take advantage of this one!
March 2, 2008
@ athena: I also think that having a reason for a call is important. Not just for calls but in all areas in life. Even in Style’s new book: Rules of the game, he suggests to give reasons so people would be more likely to agree with you. Even just saying the word “because” could change the person’s view/reaction.
Pzz