Πώς ένα κορίτσι μπορεί να προσγειωθεί έναν τύπο όπως με από Bobby Ρίο
1. Με συγχύσετε. Τίποτα με κρατά πιό ενδιαφερόμενο έπειτα ένα κορίτσι που δεν μπορώ να υπολογίσω. Στην αρχή Ι ανάγκη να αναρωτηθεί τι συνεχίζεται. Μόλις με πείτε χάνω το ενδιαφέρον. Παιχνίδι με το κεφάλι μου. Tell me you want a relationship, but then never be available to hang out. Tell me you want your space, but then call me late night and tell me how much you miss me. Spend three nights having wild passionate sex with me, and then use the term “friend” to describe me.
2. Be unpredictable. I want to sit around and wonder why you’re not answering the phone. I want to wonder if you’re going to return my call in a few hours, or a few days. After I spend a week waiting for our Friday night date… I want you to call and say “something came up can we do it another night?” Of course I don’t want you do this all the time, because then it would become predictable. Do it just enough that I never know what I’m in store for.
3. Flirt damn it. Too many girls, especially the hot ones, don’t find it necessary to flirt. Big mistake. In the beginning you need to create sexual tension. You have to do this through a mix of playful banter and gradually increasing the amount of time your hands spend touching parts of my body. I don’t want to talk about your job, your daddy issues, nor am I impressed with how smart you are with your political views. I want inside jokes, teasing, compliments, googly eyes, and at least one of your hands in close proximity to my body. The point of a good date is the continuing escalation of sexual tension.
4. Like my friends and get them to like you. I’m shallow and need the complete approval of my friends before I would seriously consider making you my girlfriend. I want to know that I will easily be able to commingle you and my buddies. And I want my buddies talking about “how lucky Bobby is” behind my back. Make an honest attempt at getting along with them. And make me believe that you’ll have no problem with me continuing to hang out with them in the future. Seem excited by the prospect of all of us doing something cool together like a camping trip or ski weekend.
5. Offer to pay occasionally. I’m not cheap and would never accept your money in the beginning, but damn it, don’t act like its my obligation to always pick up the check. Way too many girls do this and don’t realize it is a real turn off to guys. And don’t just say “do you need some money?” Make a sincere effort to pay. I won’t let you, but if you don’t chances are I’ll be bitching to my friends about you. So will most other guys.
6. Make me feel like I’m the best you’ve ever had in bed. You’re job in the beginning isn’t to show me how experienced and adventurous in bed you are… there is plenty of time to discover that later. No, your job is to make me feel like I just fucked your brains out harder then any guy you’ve had before. I know I’m not your first. But I want to believe that I’ve opened up this new sexual side of you that never existed for your other boyfriends. It was my magic dick that unleashed your hidden whore.
7. Call me out on my bullshit. I’m going to feed you a lot of bullshit. And I’m a horrible liar so you’ll probably see right through it. Call me out on it. Challenge me. Laugh at my failed attempts at show boating. Point out my short comings if I’m oblivious to them. Do not belittle me. Do not try to make me feel small. But don’t be afraid to let me know I can’t get one over on you. I want you to crack a few jokes on me, and bust my balls from time to time.
8. Be genuinely interested in my goals. In college my goal was to fuck as many girls as possible. I’ve achieved that goal, so now I’ve set higher long term goals involving my career, my travel, and my hobbies. Other than the playful banter I spoke about earlier, these are really the only things I truly enjoy talking about. Sure, I’ll humor you and discuss your friend Sally’s relationship with her boyfriend or your brother’s drug problem… but what I really want to be talking about is my interests. So you better make an attempt to become vaguely interested in them too.
9. Hint at threesome. I’ll fall for it every time. Hint at an attraction to other girls, or maybe an “incident in college” early in our relationship… just enough to give me a glimmer of hope that one day I’ll find myself in bed with you and one of your friends. I’ll hold onto that hope long past the point where there seems to be any realistic chance of it happening.
10. Care about my well being more than I do. I can be a down right mess at times. My house is sloppy, my car is a wreck, my sink is overflowing with dishes… I know this. I’m a busy guy. Its not your job to harrass me about these things. Just pick up a broom and give me a hand. When you get a flat tire, I’ll fix it…When you need someone to move a heavy piece of furniture, I’m there. So, when you notice that its been a long time since I’ve changed my sheets… throw them in a basket and head to the laundry mat.
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March 9, 2008
lol, wow this is different. I’m glad that you put that it’s not going to be a cosmo thing, you had me worried there. I agree with you on things like “Care about my well being more than I do”, “Be genuinely interested in my goals.” “Like my friends and get them to like you.” and ” Flirt damn it” (this is a big one, lol). I guess what I would add to this list is “Read a book and know what’s going on in the world”…I can’t help it, I like smart girls, it’s my weakness and if I can’t have an intelligent conversation with the girl, it isn’t going to work out.
March 9, 2008
Of course I have to find this post AFTER my friend stephanie asks me 4 advice on how to get this guy she likes. Better late than never, lol.
March 9, 2008
heres a random quote from the show Entourage that i thought was worth a post..
Ari Gold: I thought you already were his manager. Because believe me I would not put up with this much s**t from anyone who wasn’t.
Eric: Yeah, I know I am, but I want to do it for real, you know? I want to have the conversation, lock it in.
Ari Gold: So you come to me for advice. I’m gonna f**king cry. All right, here’s what you do. You deal with talent the same way that you deal with women. You have to make them believe that they need you more then you need them.
by the way, im kinda not feeling all the tits and half naked chicks all over the site. no homo or anything, but it kinda sucks when trying to view the site in a work/school environment. but thats just my 2 cents.
March 10, 2008
Yea mate - thats spot on - I know because I was cringing the whole time I was reading it! Every one of those techniques would drive me up the wall - some of them currenly are driving me up the wall in fact.
On an unrelated note - dont mean to start a witch hunt here but I have begun to suspect there may be 1 or 2 female commenters on this site who are posing as males - anyone else smell an undercover feminist or am I just losing the plot?
March 10, 2008
Ok - still chasing this girl that I’ve been talking about for so long and the pennies finally dropped that I need to pull back as you’ve all been telling me. Im ready to do this although It’s fucking agonising but I was thinking about what mystery said in the venusian arts handbook - you can game a girl too hard and you should tone it down for girl with a self perception of being a 6 or 7 say instead of the perfect 10. This girl is an 11 to me but in her own mind I reckon she would rate herself as a 7 maybe - she doesn’t realise how hot she is - but then again she MAY realise I think she’s an 11 - actually scratch that she’s not that big headed but she knows I like her. So anyway my question is - in relation to pulling back and playing cool - how much?
March 10, 2008
i got to be honest, if guys are capable of giving honest advice - then most of this stuff is a relief. i try pretty hard to be upfront and honest about what the situation is, even admitting to be a flake. but i KNOW that the things i do confuse guys, and i am seen as unpredictable. i’m also a shameless flirt. i had just assumed that these habits were drawbacks and miscommunications. i figured i just didnt know enough about how my actions were translated in a guy’s mind. chances are, that is still the truth, but as long as its working in my favor, who cares?? i notice i do everything on this list, but would have thought some them were bad for my game- for example offering to pay (most guys act like its an insult), and making friends with their friends ( i thought it would violate their space or something). and calling them on their bullshit, i just cant help it, but figured it was probably a bad habit. truthfully, i was hoping for a guide on how NOT to do some of these things. but hey, if these are working, it would explain a lot. thanks!!!!!
March 10, 2008
There are a couple I can think of though that aren’t on that list that I would imagine would be quite common -
1stly, Let herself be week with me - allow me to be the man and look after her with out being either too needy or too “I can do it myself” - thats a major turn off for me.
2ndly, be cute and funny - I seem to fall hard for girls that amuse me in a cute sort of way - not telling attention seeking jokes but amusing in the way they get on.
3rdly, Avoid being a know it all - thats the guys job - women shouldn’t know how to wire a plug in my opinion - a guy needs to feel needed.
March 10, 2008
Alright I got an addition to #3…
Dont be afraid to initiate sex sometimes, Im sick of doing it all the time. Like example, we at the movies dont be afraid to start an hand venture etc. When a girl initiates part of the time it shows us that you are a sex kitten and need it just as much as we do. I hate lazy bitches
March 10, 2008
HERE HERE TEDDY
March 10, 2008
Eddy i hesitated telling girls to be cute.. because i’ve found that when a girl tries to be cute it seems phony and is a turn off.. like you said it has to be their natural way of beaing.. a girl who tries to be funny is often more annoying then cute.
March 11, 2008
Does anyone appreciate chicks that don’t talk too much? Okay, that sounds like a dick thing to say. I guess a better way is that women who are clever/witty/funny and don’t talk your damn ear off are attractive. My rule is if she’s “easy on the ears” then it’s a mark of intelligence and humor and it bumps up her attractiveness. Seriously, nothing kills me more than a girl who talks too much and irritates with meaningless chatter.
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March 13, 2008
Yes Lance, I agree…a girl that talks to much is a turn off. I’ve never been good with people who talk a lot in general…i mean sheesh, lol
March 14, 2008
Love this one man, yea woman who can do this really can land most men. I love a girl who does all of this and yet few of them can cover all ten bases.
most women wont tell you what they want and yes, because they barely know.
March 14, 2008
I tried my best to keep the comment word count less than 2k but it was 3k and I wasn’t finished! I blogged my comment instead. With a juicy linkback.
I think the girl who will snag Bobby is a very lucky, not to mention intelligent, girl. Playboys are always a challenge, and it takes a very strong but tenderly feminine woman to keep em.
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March 17, 2008
Obviously, my standards are lowering than yours Bobby.
Intelligence and unquestioning loyalty are all I ask for.
These are interesting qualities, some of them are qualities I have, whilst others are incredibly rare to find in women.
Good stuff, though.
March 27, 2008
Ok I just came across this blog recently and now I’m wishing I had come across it a heck of a lot sooner!!
Most of the stuff you talk about its absolutely hilarious, but like in a good way.
After reading most of the points that you have stated here, its also pretty obvious that a lot of them apply to chicks as well.
I mean what girl doesn’t want a challenging, flirty and unpredictable guy who is genuinely interested in what you are about?
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