Heute abend gehe ich voran, um mit einigen Hochschulkerlen heraus zu hängen, die ich weiß. Diese Kerle neigen normalerweise, durch heißes Hochschulendstück umgeben zu werden…, also erhielt es mich an Spiel diese jüngeren Mädchen denkend.
Als ich in der Hochschule war, war ich eine Maschine. Pflügen durch Frauen (bis ich ex traf), aber nachdem Hochschule, die meine Fähigkeiten weg im gleichen Klima schleppten.
Ich würde zu a vorangehen Hochschulstab or college party and get no response from the girls I was trying to talk to. My game on girls out of college was solid… but back in the old stomping ground I came across very AFC.
I realized it was the way I was hitting on these girls that was fucking it up for me. I was talking to them in a way that was taking them out of the moment. My topics of conversation usually involved questions like; “How do you like living in the dorms?” and then I would go on and tell them a story about my dorm life experience. Or I would try to hard to fit in with the younger college guys to try to conceal my age. None of this worked.
I realized a little later that what I was doing wrong was trying to approach these girls in a rational way to spark interest. What I failed to realize is how self obsessed younger girls tend to be. In the tight nit college environment girls tend to be attention whores.
In Mark Redman’s excellent e-book Conquer Your Campus he talks about how college girls crave the college experience. You need to keep them in the moment if you want to score with them.
The best way to keep them in the moment is to talk about them. Not ask them questions that make them dig for answers that take them into their head… but instead to make declarative statements about them…
For instance, a line I’ve been using successfully when hanging around college girls is to turn to one of them and say “You’re trouble… There’s always one of you in the group…” and then smile.
She’ll usually say “No.. not me… why do you think that?”
I’ll then usually go into some cold reading “You just have that energy about you. A little mischievous.”
This gets the conversation centered in the moment… Me and her talking about how she appears to me right now.
Then you can give her a nickname. I’ve even used something as simple as “Trouble.”
If that dies down a bit I’ll keep the conversation ‘in the moment’ by pointing at other people standing around us and begin making random statements about them.
I’ll say something like “That guy over there is upset because he misses his dog” and then I’ll go off the cuff with some humerus reason I observe that. Very playful and fun…
The trick is to keep the interaction fun. Avoid talking about “what is your major?”or “Back when I was in college…” and don’t try to impress them with the things that tend to impress older girls. A college girl doesn’t care how good your job is, or how much money you make. Chances are she’s fucking some guy that lives in a dirty frat house eating Ramen noodles every night.
- Make a declarative statement about her.
- Use a little cold reading to keep interest.
- Assign her a nickname to establish rapport
- Use the environment directly around you as a source of humor
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March 14, 2008
good shit! I can really see how that would work on those types of chicks…even at a bar
March 14, 2008
Could that apply to high school gaming too?
March 14, 2008
Now I know why I was fucking up on a day2 I had last week. I asked her questions to let her tell me something about herself, trying to make her use her imagination, and she responded “I dunno” for most if not all the questions, which, I interpreted as disinterest. This went on for a while until I started role playing and she got into that…I thought the evening was a waste and that I probably wasn’t going to end the night with a make-out, until I went for it anyway, and she turned out to be a damn good kisser
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March 14, 2008
i miss those days waiting tables.
March 14, 2008
yeah man i think you are right about this hahah
deffusing this thanks ZEO
March 15, 2008
i should of read this before i went out last night.
bobby is all the guy from “waiting” lol
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March 15, 2008
That’s a great little routine! Thanks for sharing that. I don’t normally hang out in college-only bars, but when I do, I’ve experienced the exact same thing. “Normal” game doesn’t seem to stick and I did too much plowing. I distinctly remember this happening when I went into a bar across the street from the University of Florida recently. Nothing hooked. The younger and more self-absorbed the girl, the more you have to keep your game at an emotional and basic level. Great stuff.
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March 15, 2008
haha awesome cuz I’m going to a hs hockey game today and I want my sarging to be in top form LOL
March 16, 2008
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March 17, 2008
I think this may work for all ages in general. I’m gonna try applying this method next time I go out on my campus for some day game sarging.
-Seraf
March 17, 2008
hmmm, i was thinking about its use on girls of other ages, and it seems the BIGGEST clue is that its a strategy to keep them in the moment that they are really enjoying or trying to stay in. in this case, its college girls who are dying to have the college experience. obviously doing anything to bring them out of the moment is BAD.
but truly, college girls arent the only one in this situation - vacations are a good example (ESPECIALLY any girls on vacation in VEGAS!!) other examples could be hiking or parts of camping, skydiving, theme parks with rollarcoasters, a really unusual specialty restaurant, any kind of “fun” class like dancing, etc.
pretty much any situation where she thinks its important to have the FULL experience while she is doing it. on the other hand, this strategy will NOT work if its something she finds boring, like grocery shopping, or even bars (if shes a bartender or has been to a LOT of bars).
March 17, 2008
That’s a good point Athena. It’s really a state of mind that those girls are in. ANd college girls are often in that state of mind. When girls are on vacation, they loosen up and have that state of mind of looking for the most fun in that moment. Younger girls are more often in the “looking for fun” attitude…it’s kind of child like. I feel like I could entertain my younger cousins using the same 4 steps.
March 17, 2008
This stuff is extremely useful for when you’re at that age aswell.
I’m 20 and still use this stuff. Giving nicknames is one of my favourites, because so few other guys do it. Really sets me/us apart.
I read Mark Redman’s book and really liked it, shame only 60% or so corresponds to English university Pick up.
March 24, 2008
This does work so well but transvering to a seriouse conversation is hard so i guess i have to ask, how would you “phase shift”?
by the way I use the fun conversation part at work all the time on all the younger women and it works so well
Whats great is sometimes you get an Amog to turn up who tries his moves, then i do 1 of 2 things depending on what he does
if he is being smooth i just listen and watch, take it in, learn from i a bit and see ehr reaction to see if itsworth useing.
if he is being to forceful and stupid or attacks her as a person you can back her up or support her and she will feel rapport or you can laugh him off with her.
April 1, 2008
Wow… creepy older scumbag tells people how to score young tail. This site’s got it all.
April 1, 2008
Let me guess, the above comment was left either by someone who is partially involved in the Pick-Up Artist2 audition - or - you’re just a bitter bastard… Which one is it? And why no name or email?
I love these comments, it let’s me know that we are really making an impact!
April 1, 2008
i love that "these" chumps dont leave an email, they stay anonymous.whats there to be scared of? are you this way with women? if so maybe thats why u get lack of ass. but by even leaving a comment it shows that 1. you like the site and are scared to show it or 2. you "dont" like the site and but yet u take the time to read an article and then take time to comment showing your curiousity either way… u still suck
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