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COMMENT EXPULSER VOTRE WUSSY INTÉRIEUR par David DeAngelo

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COMMENT CESSER DE FAIRE LES CHOSES FAUSSES ET COMMENCER
FAIRE LES BONNES CHOSES POUR ATTIRER PLUS DE FEMMES ET
MAINTENEZ-LES ATTIRÉS !

Je parlais à un bon ami à moi uns
les nuits il y a, et lui m'a dit une histoire intéressante.

He was walking home recently, when he walked by
a couple who were obviously in an emotional
discussion.

As it turned out, the woman was breaking up
with the man, and he was trying to understand why.

The interchange went something like this:

Her: “I’m not ATTRACTED to you anymore… I just
don’t FEEL IT.”

Him: “But I would do ANYTHING to make this work…
I’ll do anything you want… just tell me what to
do.”

Her: “That’s the problem. You just don’t get it.”

…and that was all he heard.

Have you ever been there?

Have you ever had a girlfriend break up with
you, or just drift away, and the more you tried to
hold on, the further she ran from you? And the
more you tried to be a “good guy” and please her,
the more distant she became?

Well, me too. I’ve been there MORE than once in
my life.

And it ALWAYS SUCKED.

The worst part about it was NEVER UNDERSTANDING
WHAT THE HECK WAS GOING ON!

I can remember being that guy I just told you
the story about… and asking “Why? Why are you
confused? What do I have to do to make this work?”

I was willing to change, act different, or
whatever.

Little did I know at the time, but it was this
EXACT attitude that led to all the problems in the
first place.

If you’ve read my newsletters for awhile now,
you probably know that women don’t feel the
emotion called ATTRACTION for guys who act weak,
needy, insecure and “WUSS-LIKE”.

But unless you know this to begin with, then
it’s ALL TOO EASY to become a “nice”, overly-
accommodating, uninteresting, predictable, boring
guy… and even though it seems logical that a
woman should love to be treated like a queen at
all times, you’ve probably found out, just like I
have, that this combination usually leads to a
woman either 1) Leaving you… or 2) Becoming
increasingly controlling, domineering, and
neurotic.

So what’s up with that? Why does this happen?
And more importantly, what can we do to avoid
getting into this horrible position of losing a
woman’s attention because we’re trying to be nice
to her?

Here’s my take, after studying this stuff for
many, many years now…

1. ATTRACTION ISN’T A CHOICE.

In other words, we humans don’t CHOOSE who we
feel attracted to… and, JUST AS IMPORTANT, who
we DON’T feel attracted to.

ATTRACTION happens for reasons all its own, and
these reasons have evolved inside of us over time.

While culture, peer pressure, and trends can
shape our natural drives slightly, the
FUNDAMENTALS NEVER CHANGE.

2. MEN ARE ATTRACTED MORE TO LOOKS, WOMEN ARE
ATTRACTED MORE TO PERSONALITY AND CHARACTER.

Most men can’t believe it, but to a woman your
looks just aren’t that important.

Sure, if you don’t take care of yourself, don’t
bathe, and let two of your front teeth rot out you
might scare away the ladies.

But for the most part, women will look past
just about ANY physical issue if she feels that
all-important emotion called ATTRACTION.

And ATTRACTION is created by your PERSONALITY.

For women, ATTRACTION is triggered by male
qualities like: Dominance, Humor,
Unpredictability, Adventure, Strength, Sexual
Awareness, Indifference, etc.

3. WOMEN AREN’T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.

‘Nuff said.

4. WOMEN TEST MEN BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO.

When a woman begins to feel a romantic
connection with you, she faces an interesting
problem…

How can she tell for sure if your character and
personality are the way you’re expressing them?

As we all know, men and women BOTH show off and
exaggerate their “good sides” while downplaying
and hiding their negative traits at first. This is
why men suck-in their guts, brag, and show off…
and why women wear makeup, do their hair, and shop
all day for their clothes.

If you were a woman, and you needed to figure
out if a man was showing you his “true self”, how
would you do it?

What if you had to know FOR SURE?

The only way is to TEST on an ongoing basis,
and to keep escalating the tests to be sure.

Put all this together (with a bunch of other
factors that I don’t have time to talk about) and
you get an interesting problem that women face…

A woman responds to a man that stirs her
emotions, and causes her to want him so badly that
she’ll put aside all logic and reason to be with
him.

But what if the man is just pretending? What if
he only SEEMS to be this confident, funny, manly-
man on the outside, but he’s actually a push-over
WUSS-BAG that is insecure and makes up for it by
acting like a tough guy?

Or worse yet, what if he’s a WUSS all the time,
and she just happened to settle for him because he
was available and persistent… and she didn’t
have anything better going on at the time… but
now she has other options?

Well, these are the kinds of situations, that
when played out, lead to the story that I started
with… a man begging a woman to stay… pleading
with her to explain what he has to do to keep her.

Of course, this is all WUSSY behavior, and it
only serves to put the final nail in the coffin,
convincing the object of your desire that you are
ABSOLUTELY, beyond the shadow of any doubt, a
Wuss.

So what’s the answer?

The answer is to NEVER BE THOUGHT OF AS A WUSSY
AGAIN!

If you want to make your dating life a whole
lot better and easier, then stop and think about
your behavior… and resolve right now to stop
acting like a WUSS for the rest of your life.

Being “nice” and “accommodating” and
“understanding” is great for friendships and
social relationships, but it’s HORRIBLE for
ATTRACTION.

An interesting, attractive woman doesn’t want a
guy that she can push around. She doesn’t want a
guy who does what she wants him to do. She doesn’t
want a little boy that she can train and raise.

An interesting, attractive woman wants a MAN.

This doesn’t make LOGICAL sense, I know. But
it’s the truth. These submissive qualities will
only work in attracting a woman IF SHE LIKES
DRESSING UP IN LEATHER AND WHIPPING HER MAN… AND
CHARGING $400.00 AN HOUR!

And my guess is that this isn’t the kind of
woman that you’re looking for.

I’ve explained some of the important qualities
that you need to cultivate in yourself if you want
to attract women… and keep them attracted.

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