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ÈÞ°¡¿¡ ¾ÆÀÌ·£µå ¼±¼úÁý ÀÌ ¾ÆÀÌ·£µå ¼±¼úÁý¿¡ ³ª´Â ¾î¶² Ç¥ÁØ AFC°¡ ¶ß°Å¿ü´ø ¼úÃëÇÏ´Â ±Ý¹ß ͏®Æ÷´Ï¾Æ¸¦ À§·Î Ǭ Cabarete¿¡ ÀÖ´Â Áö³­ ¹ã¿¡ À̾ú´Ù. She was pretty drunk and was really anyone¡¯s game. But luck had it that she chose him to do body shots with, dance against, and stick her tongue down his throat.

You could tell by the way he had his arm wrapped tightly around her in a ¡°mine¡± sort of way that he was scared shitless of letting go in fear that his miracle score would disappear.

Well, he had a right to be scared because a few minutes later the Irish guitar player called a couple of the girls from her group up to the stage to sing along with the chorus of ¡°American Pie.¡±

Well, blonde California Hot never made it back to AFC. She was drunk and kept getting side tracked chatting with everyone in the place, finally settling on some other guy across the bar.

Here is where AFC blew it hard¡¦ and what I¡¯m warning you against.

AFC Hitting on GirlAFC stood there alone with a sour puss on his face repeatedly glancing at her across the bar waiting for her to return. He basically stopped talking to anyone around him and just sipped his drink looking miserable.

Now, do you think he¡¯s making it tempting for her to return to him? Hell no, he looked like a needy, depressed, whiny bitch¡¦. and even if she had originally wanted to return back to him, the way he carried himself after she left sealed his fate for the worse.

Not only does it negatively affect you with the girl you¡¯ve been working, but it negatively affects you to every other girl in the place. If I noticed how miserable he looked, how many other people noticed the same thing?

When a girl you¡¯ve been hitting on leaves, whether it be to take a piss, say hi to a friend, or fuck another dude in the bathroom¡¦ you best play it extremely cool. Go back to talking with your friends, flirting with other girls standing next to you, and just genuniely having a good time. Because you can be sure that the girl will peak over at you and you want to give her a reason to come back. You also want to keep her curiosity hooked on whether or not she has you. By acting like a sad little puppy when she leaves you¡¯re killing your chance she¡¯ll be back.

On the same note, if you¡¯re talking to a hottie, and she leaves, don¡¯t make it obvious to everyone in the bar how happy you are to be talking to her¡¦ I¡¯ve seen guys giving eachother hi fives like a bunch of middle schoolers after scooring a number.

You¡¯re safest bet is to engage yourself in conversation with the friends you came with, or other people around you. Forget about her until she comes back¡¦ and if she doesn¡¯t come back, at least now you¡¯ll be in a position to tackle other girls. AFC last night blew his whole night after losing one Hott.


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6 comments
  1. evilwoobie
    June 1, 2008

    Sweet Jeezes, this advice is GOLDEN! I never could stand a guy who acted ¡°boyfriend-like¡± just because of a little touchy-feely and huggy-kissy during a party. I remember a guy who I flirted with for a few minutes in a house party. He acted possessive afterwards and even said that I can¡¯t participate in the body shots because he said so. What?!? I sort of hid from him for the duration and it made my skin crawl the way he asked people ¡®where¡¯s woobie?¡¯ in a drunken, NEEDY manner, I got teased about it long after that weekend ¡¦. eeeeekk!

    evilwoobie¡¯s last blog post..Imaginary Romance: Love Illusion or Delusion?

  2. KillSwitch
    June 2, 2008

    thank you!!! we all need this advice because we all sometimes tend to backslide into AFC mode¡¦thanks for the constant reminders

  3. Brad
    June 2, 2008

    Ha!

    This is good shit¡¦

    Wow, this guy missed an awesome opportunity to use his ¡°gimme¡± to play up his social proof with everyone else there.

    It¡¯s too bad.

    You know, I actually enjoy having a woman go to the bathroom¡¦ or walk away to catch up with others¡¦ because it gives me an excuse to meet more people and have her come grab me because I¡¯m OBVIOUSLY having more fun than she is¡¦ and of course¡¦ she wants to be a part of it.

    This leads to all sorts of things that you can say when she¡¯s leaving too.

    ¡°No prob. Just come grab me when you¡¯re ready to have more fun (wink, smile)¡±

    Love it.

    Brad¡¯s last blog post..The Yin and Yang of Ego

  4. lance
    June 2, 2008

    You¡¯re absolutely right on here. I¡¯ve actually got a funny FR from my weekend where almost this exact happened to ME, except I played it cool and recovered. In a nutshell, I hooked a chick for an hour, got the makeout, and she left abruptly because her bff was super drunk. I had almost no warning and I was like WTF!? Anyway, it pissed me off for about a minute, then I went and opened sets and hooked another girl that I ended up taking home. That¡¯s the best way to handle rejection.

  5. Mike G
    June 2, 2008

    I¡¯ve lost many potential hook ups by being ignorant to the needy vibe when a girl leaves. I¡¯ve also won the attention of girls by doing the opposite¡¦thx for the reminder

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