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After you’ve spent about thirty minutes just completely immersed in this “new you” stop your visualizations and grab your pen and paper. Now I want you to write the most descriptive, thought out, clearly defined, summary of this new you. Write everything in the present tense. For example, suppose in your mind you saw yourself surrounded by a set of beautiful women and they were all laughing and having a good time… you would write “I am confident around large groups of beautiful women and easily create enjoyable conversation while building attraction.” If during your visualization you saw yourself having unbelievable sex with a perfect 10, write ” I am having sex the girl I’ve desired” and so on.
The idea here is to create a blueprint of the life you want. It needs to be as detailed as possible It needs to be filled with emotions and feelings. You need to read this piece of paper and be instantly transported into that reality.
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Every morning when you awaken… take out that piece of paper and read it a few times to yourself. Then clothes your eyes imagine this reality. See your ideal self. See your ideal life.
The entire time your visualizing this life… let your mind go. You will be tempted to let your negativity and doubt creep in and tell you this isn’t possible.. or remind yourself of your shortcoming or flaws… Clear your mind of the negativity and focus solely on “ideal life.”
Throughout the day try to remember to keep your self talk in the positive. Even if you deviate from your “ideal self” in your current reality, continue to talk to yourself positively. “I am always meeting and attracting new interesting girls.”
Every night before you go to bed. Repeat the ritual of the morning. Lay there holding that image (with feeling) firmly in your mind. See if so real that it feels like your dreaming.
I want each and everyone one of you to do this for one month. Don’t slack. I’m not asking much. There is no hard work involved. I’m not asking you to approach 10 sets a night…. I’m just asking you to spend a half an hour in the morning, and a half an hour in the evening visualizing the life you want.
At the end of the 31 days I want feedback on this exercise… I only want feedback from those of you that followed it every day exactly as I’ve stated. The rest of you can keep your excuses I don’t want to hear them.
Those that choose to follow this… I know that I will be hearing miraculous stories!
If you want some further reading on this subject I highly recommend reading The Secret.
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June 10, 2008
This is why I love this site. Yes, this is called “31 Days to better Game” but it really focuses on every area of your life. I mean, this idea above can really be focused on your entire life, not just “Game”. I plan on following this.
June 11, 2008
I think this is what separates TSB from the pick up sites out there (where it’s becoming harder to classify TSB as a “pick up” site). It reminds me of the guys who memorizes a dozen routines created by OTHER guys but has nothing interesting to talk about when he runs out. And he posts on forums all day asking what he didn’t close.
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June 11, 2008
I’ve read Think and Grow Rich (just finished it actually) and it’s PROFOUND. Seriously, any person that is interested in having a millionaire mindset, ownership, business, and wealth should read this book. It’s the best $14 you’ll spend.
I haven’t read the other two, but I’ll def. check them out. Great post!
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June 11, 2008
If you want something REALLY profound… read about Stockdale’s Paradox…
“You must never confuse faith that you will prevail in the end — which you can never afford to lose — with the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.â€
Google it…
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June 11, 2008
Roosh, that comment is classic!
June 11, 2008
Well i’m back, i’ve been off this site for quite a while as i have been very busy.
Looks like i got alot of articles to read XD.
Nonetheless its going to a be a long kick ass summer, as i have many goals to achieve.
Coincidentially,I happened to run into the beginning of this “desigining your life challenge”.
Definitely adding this to my to-do list.
I see the concepts of The Secret has been used..Very interested and willing to take part.
Thanks
Pzz
June 12, 2008
if you guys REALLY want to take this further, you can!
after you have finished this exercise, start figuring out “why” or “what will this goal get me?”.
you see, what you REALLY want is usually pretty simple, are there are plenty of ways to get it. but because of how we are raised, or the first idea that pops into our head, we generally only see one path to it. then we stick to that path even after it doesnt get us what we wanted from it in the first place.
for example, some dude spends years and years to become a doctor. in the end, he realizes he is not happy. why? well, with this guy, what he really wanted in life was respect. and he thought (subconsciously) “doctors get respect, i will be a doctor”. after a while, he forgot about the respect part, and just focused on the doctor part. along the way, he discarded all the other ways to get respect, and ended up without any at all!
he could have saved a lot of time and money if he just focused on the reason BEHIND his goal instead of the goal itself.
a lot of people do this with money. they want money - but why? what will that money get them? power? freedom? security? often they lose site of the “why” and only focus on the “how”. then they reach their goal, and wonder why they arent happy!
so if you want, when you have that perfect image of what you want in your head - look at each goal and ask “what will achieving that goal actually GET me?” “whats behind it?” “will this goal actually GIVE me what i want, or is it an illusion?” “is there a better or easier way to get the same result?”
i know it sounds new-age-y, but knowing WHY you want what you want, is more important than simply knowing what you want.
June 12, 2008
Athena is so right! Under all your conscious wants.. is a subconscious reason..
You’ll save yourself a lot of time and energy if you go within and try to discover what you truly desire.
I’ve said it before, a lot of guys never become PUAs because what they really want deep inside is an intimate relationship with a woman. Had they admitted that to themselves from the beginning they could have went after what they really wanted rather than trying to learn something that isn’t congruent with who they are.
July 1, 2008
i can tell this is gonna be some powerful shiit.
looking forward to continuing this..
July 19, 2008
Bobby, Athena and everyone else who actualize utilizes this stuff, I’d love to hear more and more from you all about this.
I did watch the Secret awhile back and instantly go excited. Yeah… t may sound a little bizarre especially to some people who are naturally more skeptic than others but if true, this really is INCREDIBLE!
Cory Skyy apparently has a program called’Magnetic Mindset’ which uses some of these concepts from ‘The Secret’ to help better your interactions/confidence with women.
March 26, 2009
I have ime off and going to do this..daygame and at night.
this seems pretty cool.