Mike, Peter, et moi ont remonté ce nouveau podcast le vendredi passé… Son fait dans notre modèle de « vieille école » de faire les podcasts comme oppossed à plus de versions amicales par radio que nous avions eteintes récemment… Nous sommes curieux pour savoir quel modèle vous préférez plus.
This podcast is all about how to create memorable summer dates. We discuss the fundamentals that go into making a date successful… how to initiate kino, go for the kiss, what to talk about, how to structure your conversations.
Then we go through a list of summer date ideas and what makes each of these dates a good choice. We hope you enjoy the podcast and find these tips helpful this summer.
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June 11, 2008
Bobby mentioned the Westfield NJ town fair!! THATS MY TOWN!! Its definitely a good place to take a girl… go next year.
June 11, 2008
Hey Bobby,
Did we go there with one of your ex’s a few years ago?
June 12, 2008
Taking a woman to the zoo is golden.
June 12, 2008
You’re soooo right Chase! I herd this left and right from a girl I dated on numerous occasions! “Let’s go to the zoo”, “come on, the monkeys and animals are so cute”
It’s like it takes them back to being a kid, I really don’t get it myself, but the Zoo has this like “magic” power for dates.
June 12, 2008
Great discussion on this podcast - as much about how to behave on the date rather than where to go. Some of the items discussed (such as avoiding boring ‘interview mode’) can be generalized into this statement:
“To attract a woman you need to engage the part of her brain that feels, rather than thinks.”
On a date, this might include:
Taking charge (actions and general leadership vibe)
Breaking out of boring interview mode by
Not giving her a straight answer to a question (e.g. answer with ‘guess!’ to engage her more, and/or giving a crazy answer)
Negging/teasing/testing. This will light up her emotional, rather than logical, everyday, brain circuits. Even making her feel a little defensive/annoyed is better than boring ‘nice’ Q+A, Q+A, …
Flights of fancy. Crazy streams of conciousness that involves you and her on crazy adventures that she can add to(e.g. We will go on a Jazuzzi tour and pretend we are long lost brother and sister who met on Facebook and fell in love and now we’re on the run for incest)
Such techniques will light up a different part of her brain. So then
Intesperse these emotional ’spikes’ and bantering with more romantic talk. For example, after she says something vaguely cool as part of this banter, just look at her and go a bit more serious and tender and impressed and say ‘You’re sweet’ or ‘you’re funny’, or ‘you’re actually quite cool’. After all the fun tension of the fun/teasing/negging a statement like this will often have an marked effect on her. More than once it has led to a ‘doggy dinner bowl’ look when I’ve used it and really sets things up for getting into more rapport or even skipping straight to escalating much more physical contact.
Choose a date that will light up her emotions! Something fun. Something you can actually *do* together. With opportunties to talk in between, too.
A funfair is perfect - it will give her butterflies. The feeling she gets on the rollercoaster is pretty much the same feeling she gets when she is strongly attracted. Perhaps that’s why they’re called ‘fairground attractions’. She won’t be able to seperate the two feelings easily.
You can look after her. You can win her something. You will both get into a ‘vibe’ where rubbing shoulders and even you putting your arm round her will be natural like breathing.
Just make sure she’s not totally rollercoaster-phobic (is there a word for that?), though!
June 12, 2008
so true about the zoo.. i took an ex there once on our 2nd or third date and it was the most fun I’ve had on a date… sure, we were stoned….
but it was a blast..
I should have brought that up in the podcast.. forgot about that date until now.
June 12, 2008
excellents stuff.. amusement parks are a good idea too. I haven’t been to one in years.. but I was talking to my girl about heading to Hurrican Harbor or Six Flaqs