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In addition, a man on a mission is very attractive to a girl. They know that the man has a sense of purpose in life. They know that he isn’t another sheep in the flock who is satisfied with everyday life-they strive for more. Knowing where you are going in life and being the direction is very yang. Lasting attraction is all about yin/yang polarity.

The women in your life need to know that you are taking her someplace, taking her on an adventure and growing together. Most guys think that they can get by with doing the normal relationship crap and keep the passion alive. In reality, this is enough to keep you happy in the beginning stages of the relationship but will soon become boring and stagnate.

Some women are more yang than most and already have a mission in their lives. We need to honor those women who do not wish to follow in our paths.

A lot of women are naturally more yin. Yin is very feminine, nurturing and giving. Yin’s job is to support a man who is on a mission. On the other hand, when yin doesn’t have a masculine, yang leader with a purpose she begins to feel unfulfilled. Lacking proper yin/yang polarity will cause the attraction to fade. It does so because she is with a weak man that does not know what he is doing with his life.

You should also have your girlfriend find out what her unique gifts are and what she can contribute to your mission. For example, I suck with grammar and spelling but my girlfriend doesn’t. She helps me spell check my writing and make sure it sounds good.

My girlfriend also supports my mission in other ways. She cleans, does laundry and all the other stuff I hate doing. She does that stuff so I am better able to focus on my mission. Cleaning up doesn’t seem very significant but if she is doing it is so I can focus on my mission, her role becomes very important. In other words, she is helping improve existence in her own way.

When a woman helps support your mission, her life is given a sense of purpose as well. When your mission improves existence, she will feel as though she is doing the same.

Since missions will never end, unlike goals, you will always be on your path. Your relationship will continue to grow as you pursue your purpose.
This will keep the attraction and excitement alive.

Without a mission you won’t know where you are heading. When you are unsure of where to go you will not be able to properly lead a woman. You will look to her for direction just to find that she is looking right back at you to take the lead. This is a huge turn off for women.

Strong attraction will be felt in the presence of a man who knows what he wants in life and will not stop for anyone or anything to get it. Your mission is not imposed upon you by God or anyone else.

Make the choice to find your purpose today and separate yourself from the pack.

-Alex

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