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I want to thank Bobby Rio for giving me space here to share answers to the emails I’ve been getting from readers of my book Bang. If you have a question then send it on over to roosh (at) rooshv (dot) com.
Hey Roosh…not sure if this is the right means to ask you a question…but here goes.
You’ve been back in the states for a while now, and from your newsletter it appears that you’re still going out, while unemployed. I am in the same situation, although I am actively looking for a new job. When that inevitable question comes up. How do you respond? Sincerely or with some sort of Banter??
My Answer:
If a girl is attracted to you then it doesn’t matter where you live or what you do, as long as she likes being with you more than the other guys. As hard as it may be to believe, game is all you need, and if you hang out with me regularly you’ll probably find it incredible that quality girls want to date me when I have no real job besides blogging and selling copies of my awesome book (which they don’t even know about).
Sure it wouldn’t hurt me right if I had an awesome six figure job, but it’s not necessary. If anything not having a job give me more free time to go out and date girls. (Danger: if you have no game and you quit your job, you may have lost the one thing holding your life together.)
Here’s one of two answer I give when a girl asks me what I do:
1. “I live off the land.” I tell her I’m an organic farmer and I sell crops at the local farmers market. She will test me and ask me what crops I sell. She’ll know I’m playing around when it takes me a couple seconds to answer. About half of girls drop the issue entirely, but others persist. Then I say something like I’m “mini-retired” and that I’m “independently wealthy” and work on pet projects. I keep it vague and fun.
2. “I’m a starving artist.” She’ll ask me what kind and I say I’m a writer.. “…but I really am starving, in fact right now I could use some food.” I’m not fat so the joke works well.
The fact that I’m a bum living in my Dad’s basement (until the next trip anyway), usually comes out on the first date. I say I just got back from some long-term travel and like living there until I figure out what I want to do, but that I love my step mom’s Persian cooking. On the surface it seems like I’m an underachiever, but many girls see me as risk-taking adventurer and wish they could do something similar.
Being unemployed and living with my Dad doesn’t help me get laid, but it doesn’t hurt as much as I thought it would. The only time it hurts is when I can’t take a girl to her place because she lives with her parents or is visiting from out of town. Then I’m kind of screwed because I have sneak her in and put a pillow over her face while I bang her. In the morning I push her out the back onto the mud field that is getting worse because of bad rainwater drainage.
So Roosh says keep it light, vague, fun, and destroy any notion in your mind that it matters. I guess it’ll matter for a girl looking to find a husband and have kids, but if you’re reading this site then chances are that’s not you.
For more on Roosh, check out our write-up on his book Bang.
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June 19, 2008
http://www.theglobeandmail.com/servlet/story/RTGAM.20080618.wtriad19/BNStory/Science/home
I had to post this recent article in Canada’s the Globe and Mail. There is a study that examines why James Bond types or people who possess “the dark triad” are more sexually successful.
The article basically explains that men who have three characteristics:
1. narcissist’s sense of entitlement,
2.the non-clinical psychopath’s high impulsivity and thrill-seeking nature,
3.and the manipulative skills of Machiavellianism.
are more successful with women.
I am a little uneasy with this study, I have to say this scientist seems to use less data then many PUAs. The overall tone of the article also seems quit judgmental as if written by someone who does not experience success with women. For instance, those three characteristics could be spun in a far more positive light, such as high self worth, bravery and charm. Nonetheless an interesting read!
June 19, 2008
this is a really good post to tie in with the flirting post. good job
June 19, 2008
Those are great answers from Roosh - especially if you are between jobs. I think I have quite a good job. But what you or I think is a good job and what girls think is a good job are quite often different things.
I’m a manager in a software company.
The first thing I do when they ask is say ‘Guess’.
And then we play a little guessing game. They have jumped into my hoop and then the first thing girls *ALL* do is take a step back and look at me top-to-toe which is neat. They are trying to work out if its an inside or outside job from my tan, and build etc etc.
Any fun, good-to-be-with girl will enjoy this game more than doing logical boring talk about my *actual* job.
Finally, I tell them something weird: ‘I’m a used cigarette lighter salesman’.
Finally when any more of this would just get childish and wearing I just tell them I’m a manager in a software company. And don’t expand much except to tell them I went into management due to my paternal instinct to help the less experienced guys advance their career. I think that shows leadership, alpha-ness and altruism without sounding too ‘flashy’. I don’t even talk about money. Normally I move the convo quickly onto other stuff after that.
June 19, 2008
Wish i read this last week… Saturday night Mike and i were at a bootcamp with AFC Adam in the city.. and some girl asked me what i do… I couldn’t quite bring myself to tell her “I run a site teaching men to be better with women” i tried the vague approach but these NY girls are like pitbulls trying to get the info out of you..
Bobby Rio’s last blog post..Blake Lively Upskirt “Proto” Moment
June 20, 2008
‘ … couldn’t quite bring myself to tell her “I run a site teaching men to be better with women”’
You should have gone for it, Bobby. I mean what better way to open up MASSIVE interest from a woman. I’ve seen vid of Mystery *using* the subject of ‘what attracts women to men’ *as* a topic/routine of conversation with women. Take a look as he games these girls: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=muCUvxxVNsM
Also - what an example of excellent vocal tone and delivery. Something to aspire to (for me at least …) and watch how, after the first 4 mins, when he has DHVed, he starts the negs on his target and then watch her body language with him (hair playing etc)…
June 20, 2008
Ya were in NYC??? Aww man, I live in brooklyn, wish I had known.
-KillSwitch
June 20, 2008
Another cool line:
They ask ‘where are you from?’.
I say ‘Mars. Are you from Venus?’
For some reason the other day I said ‘Guess’ when they asked me that which was a bit dumb-ass - like how can they guess where I’m from - and I blew the set. Not helped by the barman sniggering at my attempt and then later in the evening having to go head to head with an AMOG for about two hours which was draining … still ‘pick yourself up and get back in the race’ as they say …
June 24, 2008
hah yeah everyone wants to know what you do, but you can permanently be in transition if you want!
I “used to be this”, but now I’m working towards this.
art of seduction’s last blog post..Become a Player