Levante su mano si usted ha sido siempre un chump de tres bombas.
Diría que bastante mucho cada uno que leía a el (quién ha tenido sexo) ha tenido la desgracia de soplar su carga que un tad mordió demasiado temprano. Es de frustración y de desconcierto de ninguna duda. Y no aumentará definitivamente sus ocasiones de pegar su wilie en la muchacha otra vez… pero hay maneras de prevenirlo.
1. La manera más común de intentar a retrasa orgasmo es tomar su mente desenfocado el momento y en algo totalmente no sexual… como hacer a su lavadero, a un proyecto en el trabajo, o a su abuela. This one can work wonders, but it also has the disadvantage of taking you out of the moment… As much as you want to stare down at her watching yourself go inside and out, it will far help your cause if you close your eyes and daydream for a couple minutes.
2. If you feel yourself building up for orgasm too quickly; pull out for a couple minutes and switch to some foreplay. I’ve never met a girl who bitched that you suddenly had the urge to eat her out. Use this time to let the blood rush away from the head of your dick. Relax for a few minutes and when you feel it’s safe… go back to work.
3. Use breathing patterns to prolong ejaculation. Its best to take slow long breaths if you feel yourself getting too turned on. The slow breaths will calm you down and let the urge to climax pass.
4. Switch positions to one your less likely to climax with. For me, I know that I have trouble finishing when I’m doing a girl doggy style. Find out what position you tend to have trouble finishing with and switch to that position whenever you feel like you’re going to finish too early.
5. Squeeze the glans at the top of the penis. If you feel yourself about to orgasm early you and your partner can squeeze the smooth, big head at the top of the penis to delay it. Squeeze it firmly until the urge to orgasm passes. Don’t wait too long to make the squeeze or you’ll wind up splurging in your hand.
I hope that these tips will help you from prematurely ejaculating. Remember, you only get one chance to make a first impression.
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June 24, 2008
Great tips. Don’t forget the Something About Mary method of whacking one out prior to your date…I find that firing off a bullet prior to the actual battle keeps me in the fight 10x longer. No joke.
ALSO, everyone should be doing kegels to build up their sex muscles. This is critical for becoming a sex badass. Google it if you don’t what a kegel is.
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June 24, 2008
Nerdiest thing ever? I mentally visualize how the various high performance SQL databases function differently…
June 24, 2008
@Lance
It’s funny cause I always laughed at my dad when he told me about these. I don’t think he understood how good they were for sex, he was looking at it more from the health aspect.
@PeteTF
In “Singles” and “Along Came Polly” there are sex scenes where they use methods that are similar to what you describe.
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June 24, 2008
haha i remember being there it still comes around sometimes.
tips to add
If your going fast slow down, do slow bangers
dont masterbate so much, if you do dont do it to explode. increase your time use the pinch method when ur jerking and end without busting this helps your kegal muscle(w/e its called)
if all else fails theres climate control condoms (trojan/durex) or theres a spray(sounds tacky but works) called
Majic stamina spray.
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June 27, 2008
Another tip: Sounds funny but I’ve tried it and it works if you’re not to far along the blow cycle…
When you are standing…rub the balls of your feet on the carpet while pumping. You have to be aware before the point of no return (obviously) but if you feel it coming up, rub the balls of your feet on carpet. (I may have heard this here
Great post subject!
July 15, 2008
I actually hate it when a guy stops having sex to eat me out, and recently asked my boyfriend to stop doing it. That’s my absolute ideal foreplay, but sex feels so great that once we’re having sex, I want to have SEX. Though everyone’s different. And I don’t mind stopping to go down on him.
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July 15, 2008
I’ve read that it is also possible to delay an orgasm by pressing down on the area between your testicles and anus, or even just your testicles. I don’t see how that’s practicle during sex though, lol.