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Jedesmal wenn Sie hinter eine Illusion gegründete Furcht das Ego/drücken, den Verstand verliert seine Steuerung über Ihnen und Sie gewinnen mehr Vertrauen. Ihre unsicheren und zweifelhaften Gedanken haben nicht mehr, wie groß von einem Zug, weil Sie feststellen, daß Furcht eine Illusion ist. Das Kennzeichnen mit dem Verstand und den Gedanken, die er produziert, ist, warum Sie unsicher und an erster Stelle nicht überzeugt sind.
A man is strong. A woman needs to know that you are stronger than her and can protect her if the situation calls for it. If you aren’t strong, she will know and test you until she has completely lost ALL attraction for you.
Strength comes from having the courage to push past fears and to be able to withstand rough times. This lifestyle is not an easy one. On this path you will be met with many difficult situations that will bring you down.
The weak ones stay down, the strong get back up and keep going.
Pushing through difficult, sometimes painful situations enough times will allow you to build massive confidence in yourself. You will know on a deep level that no matter how bad a situation gets you will be able to go through it and survive.
Women will pick up on this and they will just know who they are dealing with.
A man takes charge and takes control of his life. Women are attracted to men who take life by the balls and get things done. You can’t wait around for your life to magically become perfect or for a playboy model to knock down your door and demand to give you a blow job. You need to be the one to make things happen.
“Men who have lived significant lives are men who never waited: not for money, security, ease or women.”-David Deida
In order to take the reins of your own life you must not be a victim to the world and take full response-ability for it. You must not make excuses and blame others for how your life is. This requires massive amounts of courage to do.
Most people don’t take full response-ability for their lives because it scares them too much. If they take control of their lives and failed they would have no one to blame but themselves. The thought of failure is too much for most people to bare so they point their finger to the outside world for their own shortcomings and hide in their excuses. A man never hides from his fears and never makes excuses.
A man is fearless. Well this isn’t exactly true. It might appear that he is fearless because he has become comfortable being scared and pushing through that fear but he still feels it from time to time. The difference is that he feels this fear and doesn’t let it cripple him. He actively seeks out his own fears and conquers them to the point where there are few or none left inside of him.
A man knows who he is and what he wants. To know who you are you must have the courage to look WITHIN for the answers. Looking inward for the truth can be a scary thing to do. Most people avoid being honest with themselves for fear that they might find something they didn’t want to.
It’s not your insecurities, fears and doubts that take you down, it’s you inability to recognize them and to become aware of them that hurts you the most. When you become aware of something it no longer has the ability to run your life. Take time to sit down and think about what your strengths, weaknesses, fears and doubts are.
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June 25, 2008
I believe in being completely honest. It doesn’t matter to me if I loose something or if I loose the chance to have something. In my mind the only “things” that belong to me are my family and my spirit, and all other things are simply there.
June 25, 2008
Agreed, especially the simple part. When you lie or bend the truth it makes your life very complicated. With the truth there is far greater freedom and a lot less thinking involved.
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June 25, 2008
I agree with this article Alex,
Honesty is super important.. Especially being honest with yourself. Its easier to fool yourself sometimes than other people. Sometimes we need to really look in the mirror and accept the fact the way they are and not with blinders on.
I’m liking your column.. keep it up!
June 25, 2008
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June 25, 2008
goood stuff see you guys soon
June 27, 2008
hey damien, great point - you cant be honest with others if you arent honest with yourself.
when you lie to yourself, you actually BELIEVE the lies you are telling others.
side note:: TACT AND HONESTY ARE NOT MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE
do not use honesty as an excuse to be a dick.
June 27, 2008
Great article Alex.
June 27, 2008
Thanks a lot guys. Yeah you have to balance the courage to be honest with consideration. I don’t lie when I am asked something but I don’t walk around all day telling people their business, it wouldn’t help anyone.
June 27, 2008
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July 9, 2008
If only more people in the world would actually live by these principles. Some people don’t have any regard for what they say. Don’t get me wrong, it’s good to not seek others’ approval, but you do have to be wise with your words.