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Frauen wünschen wirkliche Männer aber in der heutigen Gesellschaft, die stark verflucht ist zu finden.
Frauen haben Glauben, Respekt, Vertrauen und besonders ANZIEHUNG für die Jungen des Mammas verloren, die die Straßen heute-eine gehen, die Frau auf ihrer physischen Form anstelle vom Mann überprüfen sollten. Most “men” haven’t the slightest clue on how to be a man who does it for her and himself. So, what is a real man?
The only quality that separates a man from a boy is courage-that’s it. The willingness and courage to push past fears, obstacles, resistance etc is what makes a man. All other qualities that come to mind when you think of what a REAL man is only come as a result of having courage.
A man is honest. Without courage you can’t be honest because honesty isn’t always the popular choice. When you are completely honest you run the risk of losing many things including friends, family, jobs and WOMEN.
People are basically full of shit and will lie to you and themselves all day long. Whenever they meet someone who is completely honest it scares the crap out of them because they fear that this person might reveal to them something they didn’t want to admit to themselves. Whether it be a fear, insecurity, judgment of themselves and so on, meeting an honest person is not something they want to do because they don’t have the courage to be honest in the first place.
I can’t count how many friends and women I have lost when I made the choice to completely honest with myself and others.
People generally lie for two reasons:
1. To hold onto something they don’t want to lose
2. Not lose the possibility of gaining something
So you might lie to your girlfriend about watching porn because you don’t want to lose her
or you might tell a date that you drive a BMW 500 series and that it’s in the shop because you don’t want to lose out on getting the girl.
People lie because they are scared of losing or scared of not getting but it’s all based in FEAR. To be completely honest you must have the courage to push past that fear, to say fuck it and do it anyways.
All fears are illusions, they aren’t real. You might feel them completely, the nervousness,
the shaky hands but they aren’t real. Every time after you push past a fear and your heart rate calms down you ALWAYS think “that wasn’t that bad, what the hell was I scared of?”
A man is confident. Confidence doesn’t come from NLP, Hypnosis, of any other emotional balancing system. Those things definitely HELP but they will never work as well as having courage. Every time you push past a fear you gain confidence. Why?
The mind/ego is a fear producing machine. It loves to keep you nice and scared because it will have the greatest control over you. Control is how the ego gets fed and survives. If it were to lose all control over you, you would no longer have an ego.
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June 25, 2008
I believe in being completely honest. It doesn’t matter to me if I loose something or if I loose the chance to have something. In my mind the only “things” that belong to me are my family and my spirit, and all other things are simply there.
June 25, 2008
Agreed, especially the simple part. When you lie or bend the truth it makes your life very complicated. With the truth there is far greater freedom and a lot less thinking involved.
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June 25, 2008
I agree with this article Alex,
Honesty is super important.. Especially being honest with yourself. Its easier to fool yourself sometimes than other people. Sometimes we need to really look in the mirror and accept the fact the way they are and not with blinders on.
I’m liking your column.. keep it up!
June 25, 2008
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June 25, 2008
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June 27, 2008
hey damien, great point - you cant be honest with others if you arent honest with yourself.
when you lie to yourself, you actually BELIEVE the lies you are telling others.
side note:: TACT AND HONESTY ARE NOT MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE
do not use honesty as an excuse to be a dick.
June 27, 2008
Great article Alex.
June 27, 2008
Thanks a lot guys. Yeah you have to balance the courage to be honest with consideration. I don’t lie when I am asked something but I don’t walk around all day telling people their business, it wouldn’t help anyone.
June 27, 2008
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July 9, 2008
If only more people in the world would actually live by these principles. Some people don’t have any regard for what they say. Don’t get me wrong, it’s good to not seek others’ approval, but you do have to be wise with your words.