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“Juzgúeme no, porque he juzgado bastantes para nosotros dos” odio para las mujeres soy una de las ediciones más grandes que están sosteniendo a individuos traseros de maestría el fechar que aprende y de la relación. La mayor parte del tiempo su odio para las mujeres se enciende unconsciously, apenas debajo de la superficie. Éste es campo común incluso con los individuos que están intentando conseguir “buenos” con las mujeres. There are several reasons why guys hate women.The first reason for their contempt for women stems from their anger at how easily women can get sex. They will call women sluts or whores but the truth is they wish that they could get laid as easily as they do. A guys desire to have an easy pass to getting laid comes from feelings of being inadequate. They feel like they are not enough and try and fill that gap inside of themselves through sex. When they are unable to get sex, they go further into despair.

Men who hate women hold onto feelings of not being enough and desire to cover this up by sleeping with a whole score of women. They can’t accomplish this and it intensifies their feelings of being inadequate because it’s something that guys should naturally be able to do.

Guys hate women for their ability to get men to do whatever they want them to do. They hate this because it reflects back their own desires to be able to control and manipulatesylvie eats my leg people. I see this all the time with guys, they get into stuff like my website not to expand love but to control women. This desire to control others stems from their own inability to control themselves and their own lives.

Most things that are based in fear like controlling and manipulating others are often judged very harshly and become too painful for a person to handle. As a result, their desires get projected out into the world.
They try and fix the crack in the mirror and not themselves. They will live vicariously through their children because they are mad at themselves for not making something of their lives. They will try and offer unsolicited advice on relationships because their own relationships suck.
They will go door to door convincing others to worship their God because deep down they don’t believe it.

This all comes back to unbalanced orange chakra. With an unbalanced orange chakra the ego tends to run wild. The ego wants nothing more then to control others. It likes to feel superior to people because it is in fact deeply insecure. It feels superior by putting other people down.

A great example of this is how most women will treat each other. Its very common for women to hate other women, unless they are friends with them.
Even then they are usually just in competition with each other. An average looking girl will call a hotter girl a slut. Not because the hotter girl is in fact a slut but because they feel inferior to them. This leads to a lot of woman on woman hating because there will always be a hotter girl.

If the hotter girl in fact turns out to be a slut, the less attractive girl is happy. She feels happy because it puts the attractive woman on a lower scale then her. She feels superior and her ego is nice and pleased.

Another cause for men hating women is because even the ugliest girl can still get men’s attention. The guy hates this because he is attention deprived. He wishes he could try and attempt to fill the gap inside of him by getting attention from others.

Attention from others is what the ego loves. It makes the ego feel special and importantThe Love Letter but this is a lie. No body is special, including yours truly. We are all one and all equal, a fact that this ego wishes to ignore.

A guy who lets his ego control him will desire the massive attention from others. Unfortunately the ego can never get filled no matter what. No matter how much attention you get from other people or how cool they think you are it will not be enough for the ego. Sadly, this fact is not realized by most people and they waste an entire lifetime chasing a mirage.

If they do get tons of attention from women and sleep with the hottest girls, after a while they will find it very unsatisfying. This is because the ego is a bottomless pit. No external thing will ever bring you true happiness. Granted, love from women is nice but it’s not a requirement to be happy. If you aren’t happy with yourself no amount of external love will make up for it.

Guys also hate and love women because of the old Madonna/whore complex.
They love the whore and feel guilty as a result. They feel this way because deep down inside their programming from parents and society tell them that they should go for the Madonna, the good girl. It’s like being pulled apart emotionally by two opposing magnets.

Another motivation for hating women comes from the guilt that they feel from their HUMAN biology. The biology of a human is very animalistic in nature. It doesn’t care about love or loyalty or even the girl’s name. It cares only about mating. Deep down there is a fantasy of every guy to have un-attached, un-emotional, perspicuous sex where they basically use the other person. It’s something that is hardwired into EVERY GUY.

This hump and dump kind of fantasy creates a large amount of guilt and shame. They feel guilty for even having thoughts like this, let alone actually doing it. They project their own values onto the human biology.
They think that because they are into meditating and inner game that they should know better. They try and repress these thoughts and label them as “dirty.” Repression always comes out in unhealthy ways like resenting women.

The way to transcend the guilt of having lust no strings attached fantasies is to realize that its only the biological part of the body that has these desires. The biology part of yourself is NOT actually who you are. Don’t judge it or repressed it, simply let it go and know that its not you. Observe it.


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8 comments
  1. Killswitch
    July 9, 2008

    This is a very good article and I think everyone that visits this site should read it. The part I most agree with is the section that discusses the PUA. I’ve something similar to this before and I must say that it sounds pretty accurate. The PUA is a double edged sword because, yes, on one end you’re getting what you want (more women) but on the other end, you’re still empty (like this article pointed out).

    This is why I don’t want to be a PUA, I just simply want to get better with women. I’ve always been a relationship kind of guy anyway, so that’s my aim.

    Great psychology stuff by the way.

  2. athena
    July 9, 2008

    a lot of women hate men, too - but thats a whole other issue.
    its really amazing the number of men who genuinely dislike women and dont even know it. especially if they say “i love women” - only one guy i knew who said that was telling the truth.

    i have some questions i ask guys when i get to know them to kind of gauge this.
    The first, is i ask what kind of girl makes a good girlfriend, and what kind of girl makes a good wife? generally, the more different the two are in their eyes, the less healthy their view of women is.
    i also ask something like why do girls have so much drama, or why do you think girls fight so much. guys who have negative views of women cant help but spit them out when answering this question.

    those are the main ones, but depending on the convo, i may ask, “how are men and women different”? and “whats the difference between a slut and a whore?” or “why is it slutty for a woman to sleep around, but not for a guy?” or “how would you raise your daughter differently than your son?”

    this later set of questions can get tricky, because i AM a woman, and by the time i get to that, they may be suspicious of me, or afraid of saying straight out that they dont like women (or admitting to themselves!) maybe they dont want to scare me off, or want to avoid an irrational argument.

    so, maybe you guys could sit down and think about your own answers to those questions, and see what pops up in your mind. would you answer differently if a guy was asking than if a girl was asking?

  3. Alex S
    July 9, 2008

    thanks man for the love.

    maybe I’ll write up a post about Athena’s questions or make one about why women hate men and what women to avoid.

    Alex S’s last blog post..How to Lead Her Sexually ebook

  4. Zeo
    July 9, 2008

    Very well written and thorough article. Glad I’m one of the few who does like women but hates my mom (jk love ya ma, lol).

  5. id
    July 10, 2008

    Wow this article really brings up some painful memories. I definitely went through a period when I hated women.

    What’s the compassion formula?

  6. Great White Hope
    July 10, 2008

    Killswitch,

    What is the difference between being good with women and a PUA?

  7. Killswitch
    July 10, 2008

    Great White Hope,

    here’s how I see it. A PUA is a person (male or female, let’s be real) that constantly has a different mate..let’s say every week for arguments sake. Someone who’s good with women is just that…good with women. Yes, a PUA is good with women, but like I said before, he or she constantly has a different mate.

    My aim is to not be a PUA. I’m a relationship kind of guy. I want to be able to see a girl and with what I learn here, build a relationship with that girl. Hope that clarifies it. :-D

    -KillSwitch

  8. lilez0521
    July 11, 2008

    Wow, this article totally blows my mind away. It is so easy to be distracted by the glitter of a situation. IE, the player/PUA that goes out and scores with numerous women. Wow this makes me really think back to what athena said in the Day 1 post about actually determining what you motives are in a situation. Are you building a lifestyle to fit in/achieve a certain status, or are you building a lifestyle because you feel that it will aid you in becoming the best you that you can be?

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