Eu não afixei qualquer coisa por Sebastian Drake dentro por algum tempo. É sido sempre um do o mais para baixo para ligar à terra para fora ônibus genuínos lá… e eu pensei de que esta lista que emitiu fora do characterstics likeable valeu a pena compartilhar com você.
Se você guys não ouvir Sebastian na ação… Eu recomendo altamente verificar para fora sua série audio Domine o Vibe. Eu escrevi a revisão da série por algum tempo há, e como a maioria de você saiba. i” m um ventilador grande.
13 características de povos Likeable por Sebastian Drake
1. Sorrir - Os povos que estão na facilidade, confiável, e feliz tendem a sorrir, e esse sorriso põem povos em
facilidade. Sorrir mostra que você está satisfeito ver alguém qual pode realmente lisonjear.
Se você quiser mudar uma coisa para vir através de mais social, sorri um sorriso grande. Sometimes you will not feel in the mood to smile -however, if you choose to smile anyway you’ll still get the great results.
2. Eye contact - Maintaining eye contact when you talk to someone draws them deep into conversation with you - the rest of the world slows down, and you both become quite important to each other. It shows a calm confidence in what they are saying and it makes them even more engaging, almost hypnotic. A quick tip: Right eye to right eye. Look from your right eye to the right eye of the person you’re talking to. This strikes a great balance between good eye contact and not staring.
3. Touch - You’ll consistently see magnetic people reach out and touch others. Touching shows emotion and affection and brings you closer to other people. Humans crave physical contact with others, and more emotion and affection can be expressed through touch than any number of words ever could. Next time someone does or says something you really like, give them a high five, some “pound”, a playful punch on the arm or a big hug.
4. Not talking about yourself - Likable people typically are more curious to get to know other people and don’t talk about themselves as much. Likable people are always looking to find out more about the other person, what they are doing, and what interests them the most. Most people don’t feel heard - likable people know this, and encourage others to talk about what they really enjoy.
5. Not talking too much - Closely related to the above point.Likable people and high status people do not talk too much. Instead they encourage others to talk and to open up. People love to talk about their experiences and cool things they’ve done - when you become more curious and encourage them to speak more, they’ll actually like you more. If you catch yourself rambling for a while, an easy way to adjust is to say, “But that’s enough about me - what about you?”
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August 25, 2008
Good list, I hadn’t read that before. Wanted to add my two cents on a couple of items:
1. Smiling: I’ve spent HOURS working on smiling, to the point where I spent time taking pictures of myself with various smiles. Seriously. A photogenic smile felt super awkward the first several zillion times I did it, so I never did it in real life, but now my smile looks nice and photographs well. If you make this one change it’ll go a long way. I can usually get people to open up to me based on this alone.
2. Same deal with eye contact, I went through a stretch working on alpha eye contact and was surprised by the results. I’m better at communicating strength and sexiness with focused eye contact.
3. Imposing weakness. This one is huge! This is the biggest difference between my AFC friends and my pimp friends. My pimp friends always exude positivity and “bring each other up,” while the AFC’s bag on each other and unconstructively point out the negative. No matter who you’re hanging out with, bring the positive and make people feel good.
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