我未由Sebastian ·德雷克张贴什么一会儿。 他总是其中一位最现实的真正教练那里…，并且我认为他送在可爱的characterstics外面的这张名单值得分享与你们大家。

如果你们在行动没听见Sebastian… 我高度推荐检查他的音频系列 掌握Vibe. 我写了a 系列的回顾 一会儿前，和作为大多数您知道。 i” m一台大风扇。

可爱的人民的13个特征 由Sebastian ·德雷克

1. 微笑 -是轻松自在，确信和愉快的人们倾向于微笑和那微笑投入人在 舒适。 微笑表示，您高兴地看某人哪些能真正地恭维。 如果您想要改变一件事遇到更加社会，微笑大微笑。 Sometimes you will not feel in the mood to smile -however, if you choose to smile anyway you’ll still get the great results.

2. Eye contact - Maintaining eye contact when you talk to someone draws them deep into conversation with you - the rest of the world slows down, and you both become quite important to each other. It shows a calm confidence in what they are saying and it makes them even more engaging, almost hypnotic. A quick tip: Right eye to right eye. Look from your right eye to the right eye of the person you’re talking to. This strikes a great balance between good eye contact and not staring.

3. Touch - You’ll consistently see magnetic people reach out and touch others. Touching shows emotion and affection and brings you closer to other people. Humans crave physical contact with others, and more emotion and affection can be expressed through touch than any number of words ever could. Next time someone does or says something you really like, give them a high five, some “pound”, a playful punch on the arm or a big hug.

4. Not talking about yourself - Likable people typically are more curious to get to know other people and don’t talk about themselves as much. Likable people are always looking to find out more about the other person, what they are doing, and what interests them the most. Most people don’t feel heard - likable people know this, and encourage others to talk about what they really enjoy.

5. Not talking too much - Closely related to the above point.Likable people and high status people do not talk too much. Instead they encourage others to talk and to open up. People love to talk about their experiences and cool things they’ve done - when you become more curious and encourage them to speak more, they’ll actually like you more. If you catch yourself rambling for a while, an easy way to adjust is to say, “But that’s enough about me - what about you?”

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