我去年汇集题为的一个长的系列“如何是普遍的在高中”平衡包括的a podcast 去在攀登社会梯子的不同方面。

但有时仅仅是普遍的不是足够。 有时它是必要的我们是社会超级明星。 带领随员…的人 在小鸡总得到第一dibs…的人

充分地了解您的状态在社会梯子总是不容易的。 如果您最近是普遍或者正义中间水平…您在不同的圈子附近大概漂浮…您与其他成员相比将是凉快…的有些圈子 不管圈子您，它是重要的您是立场人。

To get a true feel for where you stand amongst your entourage you need a reality check. The coolest guy in the group will always reap these rewards:

• If you’re not there… people will be asking where you are

• If you say yes… it happens.

• You can party as hard as the wildest person in the group… but when necessary you can be as focused as the clearest thinker in the group.

• You always ride shotgun.

• You’ve got stories… you still haven’t told.

• You’re the person who needs to OK trips, parties, and events.

• Everyone knows when to leave you alone… and they do.

• No one would dare make a joke about fucking your sister.

• Your buddies always assume that you’re any female’s first choice.

If you’re going to lead the group, and be the guy that the popular kids follow you need to form some rock solid habits.

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