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This weeks radio show was a blast. We had a couple college friends stop by the studio to discuss the fine art of partying like a rock star…
We take the entire night from start to finish and give a complete game plan. Starting with “creating buzz” and finishing up with getting the girl to bounce back to your place.
The two guys that joined us are world class party animals and have had more than share of “good times” so I suggest listening closely to their advice. These guys are the real deal.
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September 15, 2008
thanks for the response. . . so is there proper time to let a girl know that you like her and have feelings for her? never? not until after she tells you first? not until after she tells you a few times? right before you propose? and sometimes i get the feeling that LOVE a dirty word on this site. is there a post here somewhere about maintaining a good long term relationship? post-game game?
September 15, 2008
Dude,
Love definitely isn’t a dirty word… I’m currently in a relationship and have been in many of the years. For me, that is what it has always been about… finding the right girl.
My general rule is to delay the talk as long as possible. This doesn’t mean you don’t “show her” you have feelings for her by the way you’re treating her. But generally nothing good comes from having the conversation too soon.
The girl I’m with right now… I dated her for about three months before I told her I was in love with her… I said it first, but I could tell she was dying to hear it. I also never addressed the exclusivity question for about that long.
My feeling is that if things are going good there is no reason to put added pressure on the situation by talking about it. The fact is, if the girl is into you… she’s not going to leave you because you avoided the talk. But on the other hand, if she is on the fence with you, and you press the talk, you’re liable to scare her away.
we are planning a radio show on the subject of post game/relationships….
And I don’t want you to think we’re heartless guys avoiding relationships… cuz that is completely untrue…
I’ve just payed enough attention over the years to how it works.. for both myself and the friends around me… that is why I pass along the advice I do.
dude Reply:
September 16th, 2008 at 10:41 am
thanks bobby,
that advice is a little piece of gold to me : ) .. i understand nothing is simple black&white but there are guides and guidelines to help us along the way and you are so right about “showing” her how you feel being more important right now than actually saying the words that express how you feel. i expect the same from her too.. i don’t need to hear the words i just need to be able to read her actions.
i spent time in a relationship hell because my then girlfriend would tell me how much she loved me and needed me but in the same day be confrontational, selfish, say mean things and in general treat me unkind.. but as soon as i mention breaking-up she would turn on the waterworks. her saying she loved me meant nothing because her actions didn’t back up her words of love. the real crazy thing is that she really did love me and i knew it.
some points i would like to see covered on the subject of post game/relationships : what are some mistakes that couples make that slowly drown a relationship? what things keep a relationship on track moving forward in a good direction?
i’ve known friends who feel trapped in their relationships and love someone that makes them unhappy.. what can they do? every relationship has obstacles that will need to be overcome but how and when do you know to throw in towel and call it quits or keep working at it? and once you know its over what is the best way to gracefully break it off and move on. what if you are living together?
they say an ounce of prevention is worth a ton of solution.. i want to know how to prevent a relationship from going bad and how to fix one that is stale and/or broken and how to recognize something that is beyond repair.. just a simple guide mind you.
September 17, 2008
so, i was reading what u have to say on the topic of telling someone u ” love” them. it can be frustrating for people to not mention the word love because their emotions get in the way of the logics. so what about….when u feel really frustrated but don’t want to say ” i love you” just casually throw in ” …i can really fall in love with you”. or is that too much for you guys as well ? :-p
September 24, 2008
Great post. i am so glad that you guys do the post on a weekly basis. I have something else to look forward to at the end of the week.
Dude:
I really think somethings you just have to sit back and let it happen on its own. Like you may like a girl and then you get to a point where you wonder what your next move is going to be. Its something that i still struggle with and that being that I look to deeply into somethings/overanalyzing… So in the words of Stifler, “Just relax… Take it slow, and let the good times roll…”
Bobby Rio Reply:
September 24th, 2008 at 9:09 am
good advice lifez… parties are meant to be enjoyed… if yo ugo there solely to game girls you’ll be bring a negative vibe to the party.