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f you’ve ever had someone you’re attracted to give you the cold shoulder, only to turn around at a later date and BEG to be your willing love slave, you’ll know what I’m talking about today.
And if you haven’t had that happen, by understanding & applying my “Reversing Strategy” you’ll see it start happening for you!
Even if you’ve had that happen in the past, you may not know WHY it happened, and thus you were unable to re-produce the same event.
Here’s the magic formula for having it happen, and getting it ALOT:
What happens is that when you Emotionally Respond to any circumstance or agitation (such as “rejection”) you are failing the test and confirming to them that you are not worthy of being surrendered to!
Does this make sense? The feminine giving in to the masculine is a form of “surrender” of emotion and body.
If your emotional capacity is reactive in any way other than the complete and total “Confidence of Abandon”, thousands of years of genetic design screams out to her subconscious to say “nnahhh, I don’t think so.”
So, pass the test by being ABOVE it!
Can you imagine having a real true heart-felt LAUGH when someone says “no” to you?!
Don’t you think, just for a moment, they’ll doubt their choice?
Of course they will!
Your laughter must not be forced, faked or feigned. Genuinely see it as funny. It’s a subconscious form of slight condescension, as if you’re looking at her as just slightly clueless (rather than as most men see pretty women: all-powerful and all-knowing)
Subtlety is key here. You don’t want to come across as a snob. “Reversing” works like magic if it is SUBTLE. Here’s why:
When you ever-so-subtly act as if you know something they don’t, there is a transference of energy. Remember Mr. Bolan’s golden master key for persuasion & seduction:
Your Emotional Response Transfers Control To Your Target!
By not responding in the typical way that she is used to, it creates an “energy vacuum” where SHE emotionally responds to fill in the gap. Thus control is transferred to YOU. That’s the beauty of “reversing”!
In that moment they may begin a bit of nervous laughter themselves, and then, you’ve hit the “start over” button and you have another chance.
Then comes Anchored Comfort, and you’ll find the cold shoulder turning into the lusty vixen.
Are you getting it yet? (pardon the pun) If you’re ready to go full-out and live the life of a warrior king once and for all, start using the “reversing” strategy whenever you’re met with rejection. You’ll soon find it turning into seduction!
To Your Success,
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September 25, 2008
Wow this blows my mind, but i’m gonna work on implementing it in. Great post.
September 25, 2008
This is terrible…I studied this stuff a few years ago and tried it for over a year and it NEVER WORKED…
September 25, 2008
If they say no, i’d say “bye!” and go chill w some other chicks… i’ve read somewhere that you don’t get a second chance at making a first impression… so you’re better off just letting go of her. If you demonstrate enough value to others, she’ll come back on her own.
September 26, 2008
I have to go with light and Kevin here. I am not one to stay around to long after she says no. There are always exceptions to the rule, but all in all I think its better to move on, especially if there are other girls there.
I also feel you look a little needy or bitter when you take this approach…
September 26, 2008
Depends the mood… sometimes its fun to play with girls who initially reject you. I’ve def turned a few around in my time.
September 26, 2008
I’ll sometimes plow or ignore if I get an initial blowout/rejection. I read a Zann piece that was total gold, it might have been on this site. Anyway, rejection is not even in his reality, so he completely ignores it and turns it around. Example:
PUA: “You’re really attractive, I’ll meet you for drinks on Friday at 6:00 pm.”
Her: “Sorry, no, I’ve got a boyfriend.”
PUA: “Ha ha, that’s cool. 7:00 pm it is then, wear something sexy.”
I think you can get some mileage out of this by remaining unreactive and lighthearted and plugging away. It’s not really plowing, either, but more like ignoring obstacles.
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September 26, 2008
The more I read this article the more absurd it is….please post something that we can use without being laughed at! You guys usually have such good articles!!!! The author himself looks like some kind of mad scientist….
September 27, 2008
i have to agree. this is a poorly written article. the point the author is trying to make is obviously NEVER LET THEM SEE YOU SWEAT which is great advice and can definitely turn a rejection into seduction. you are demonstrating high-value when can have a heart-felt LAUGH at rejection.
September 28, 2008
I don’t think that this article was a total waste, I mean it’s basically saying, don’t be a prick like others dudes when they get rejected, just keep your cool and confidence. But the title and the intial point is misleading because just because you don’t act like a douche when you get rejected, doesn’t mean the situation is going to turn into you having sex with her in the bathroom.
October 7, 2008
Ok dudes. This is as simple as it gets. The way you react to anything a chick throws at you can reverse her thinking. Its all on you and your confidence. If you immediately react in a negative manner or get all WAHHHH WHY NOT, (which is what they exactly expect) your simply done, your chance is beyond gone. No chick wants to be with a obnoxious or absent minded dude who cant be a man and take everything in. Now maybe some of you dudes had no chance in hell to begin with and the chick was probably too hot for you satisfy anyway, this works if you see the chance but then get rejected for whatever possible reason they chose to deny you. Your actions and reactions to what they give you is what sets everything up for the score, you gotta run before you can pass the ball bro bros