Comments on: Pickup Lines Are For Losers

By: Sebastian Suave

Sebastian Suave — Wed, 15 Oct 2008 19:44:22 +0000

Very good post. I really like it Lance and fully agree with it!

I kinda use the same stuff so it doesn’t even feel like ‘gaming’ to me or a lot of people who see what I do. There are no routines or anything like that. Just normal conversation with lots of flirting/banter, jokes, etc.
Except I have to admit, I still don’t use ‘Hi, I’m….. ‘ as opener that much. I usually go for a situational one but that’s also because I’ve proven to myself that I can often come up with really clever stuff on the spot at that moment. Of course it depends on the atmosphere or social setting as well. Sometimes a less direct ’situational’ opener is a better way to initiate anyway.

I agree with Bobby when he says this isn’t beginner’s stuff and that this stuff works for people with high confidence and charisma. That’s true. But that’s exactly the point, isn’t it?. We should all work towards becoming that. Charismatic and confident. And that’s what I’ve been working towards over the past year or so and seen huge growth.

By: Brad Howard

Brad Howard — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 06:12:08 +0000

Ah… but the huge thing about Slick Willy is that he knows about group dynamics, social proof, and how to work a room.

He doesn’t get into “deep talk” until after he’s went around the room and met people…

You don’t have to “lock in” with every girl you see. In fact, you might as well breeze through the room and get a feel for everyone before you waste your time trying to go deeper with a chick that sucks… lol

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By: Lance

Lance — Sun, 12 Oct 2008 16:27:49 +0000

Calibrate. If you're in a social situation with a new girl and cursing is appropriate, it's fine. Generally speaking, it's a sign of lack of articulation, which is lower value, but I curse all the time for points of emphasis. Recent Words from Lance..I PWNed this Blog, Bitchez!!

By: Aaron

Aaron — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 16:51:12 +0000

I never curse anymore, unless I’m with a bunch of guys who are doing the same.

By: lilez0521

lilez0521 — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 07:56:52 +0000

Excellent post. One question that i want to pose. Can something like cursing hamper your high status/value? Like when pretty much most of your sentences include a fuck, shit, or motherfucker…

By: KillSwitch

KillSwitch — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 00:26:43 +0000

Very interesting post Lance and I must say, that I agree with it. True, guys who are starting on this need things like routine to start off…but the problem with routines is that they become a crutch. I myself saw this happening to me. I began relying on it too much and I sort of lost my personality…so i stopped. I stopped with the routines and just used the PUA material and let it become part of who I am. But like Bobby said, it is not a beginner’s move.

-KillSwitch

By: MikeStoute

MikeStoute — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 07:07:47 +0000

I miss our vacation… When are we doing the next one Bobby? Where should we go next?
Anyone?

By: Lance

Lance — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 04:48:44 +0000

As an experiment, I think using this process can go a long way towards drawing out natural charisma and projecting confidence. If your projection and BL are completely tight, you'll be able to open with next-to-nothing and still hook. Expect blowouts and weird looks in the beginning, though, which is fine. Remember your blowout experiment in DR? It's kinda the same thing, isolating and minimizing one component of your game in order to highlight other sections. Recent Words from Lance..I PWNed this Blog, Bitchez!!

By: Bobby Rio

Bobby Rio — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 04:35:10 +0000

Interesting post Lance, I’m still trying to decide how I feel about it. While I’m certain that this works for guys like Clinton… I do believe that the average guy needs a ton of self confidence and natural charsima to pull this off.

I do agree with you that it is not a beginners move. But I have seen you personally use this style to pull girls… so I know it works.