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Hooking Up on New Year’s Eve

Mike Stoute and Pete the Freshman are smack in the middle of planning a New Year’s Eve bash for their place.  I wouldn’t expect anything less than an all out bash from those two.

I’ve had some really crazy New Years, some successful with the women, some not so successful.  Most of the “not so successful” nights usually involved too much alcohol.  Which I feel is the number one reason most guys don’t get laid on New Years.

This year, the guys over at Love Systems sent over a really good article on picking up women on New Year’s eve.  This first article deals with hooking up at a club.

The New Year’s Eve Pickup Guide

New Year’s Eve at Clubs

If you’re going to a club, it’s going to be more intense than usual. You have to be high-energy and be the life of the party. This doesn’t mean being drunk and obnoxious (though I almost certainly will be, but that’s because my name is Savoy and I’m an alcoholic). It does mean giving off a powerful, upbeat social energy.

This is otherwise known as “being in state.” There are a bunch of great tactics we’ve discovered that let you feel at the top of your game every night you go out. Discovering these helped turn my game from hot-and-cold to hot-and-hotter.

One thing I see guys messing up all the time is when they get to a club or party and then do a reconnaissance mission around the place - to see where all the cute girls are, for future reference I suppose, or more probably as a tactic to avoid having to approach right away.

Don’t do this. Approach as soon as you arrive. I don’t care if you’re sexually attracted to the first woman you approach; I don’t even care if you approach women. Just establish the momentum that comes from arriving somewhere and instantly being part of the social scene there.

If you want to learn how to put yourself in the type of positive, powerful emotional state that women respond to, even when you’re not in the mood, download Moxie and Savoy on Getting in State. It’s got specific tips you can start using tonight.

Also, at clubs, you’ll see a lot more women who don’t normally go to clubs, but who will make a few exceptions every year with New Year’s being one of them. Most of these women will be in large groups and many of them will be dancing. So, be aware that there will be beautiful women on New Year’s Eve who don’t always act like you may be used to beautiful women acting at clubs… they may be a little friendlier and more down to earth.

So, if you’re used to using a lot of hard-core teasing and disqualification, make sure you’re watching her reactions and pick up on signals when it’s time to tone it down.

In the next article, Love Systems covers hooking up at a house party.