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I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. I am fascinated with improving our general well-being. It can be done. It must be done. Find me on Facebook, lets talk more.
Why Jerks Get the GIrls
I’m really digging these webisodes with Mr. M and Afc Adam Lyons. They vibe in a way they remind me of the podcasts Mike Stoute and myself used to do.
In this episode they tackle the idea of why jerks tend to do better with women. They actually make some really good points:
- Why jerks mishandle women
- The way jerks are behind closed doors
- How to act like a jerk without being a jerk
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How to be the nice guy that still gets women
Mr M, Braddock, and Sheriff (3 of my favorite presenters at the Super Conference) put out a dynamite audio interview series titled How to be an Alpha Male.
In the audio you will learn:
- The definition of an alpha male, as seen through the lens of dating science.
- Why being alpha is so devastatingly attractive to women.
- Many examples of behaviors, including alpha, alpha wannabe, and the dreaded beta.
- The key differences between alpha males and all of the average men out there.
- The theory of “staying on your purpose” and how it can improve your life.
- Three danger zones: boundaries, reactions, and jealousy.
- Detailed steps that’ll take you from average man to alpha male.
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January 9, 2009
Sup Guys! Quick Question, until stumbling upon the community i was always labeled as the nice guy, but when i did start to develop game it was easier because since i hung out with hot girls and was able to befriend anyone, i had a ton of social proof, plus im very good with words. My problem was escalation. I had one chick friend (HOTT) that i would chill with all the time! We would sleep in each others beds and go out and all talk all night and all that junk. And there were a couple times that i know a kiss would have been appropriate, but with my lack of experience at the time, i freaked and figured it must have all been flook. Needless to say, i became just a friend. well a few months went by without us talking or hanging out, until last week where we went bowling. I just felt like i handled her so much differently than i used to, with more dominance and confidence and i know she could tell. Well we were talking, and we used to tell everything to each other. She would tell me how she screwed over some guy, and it seemed like she would come to me because she knew i could make her feel like she was innocent, which is what i used to do! she told me how she liked this guy, but fucked his roommate, and asked me if that was as bad as he made it out to be. Before she finished i cut her off and said, “You did what!! I cant even believe you’d ask me if you were wrong! That is probably one of the sluttiest things i have ever heard and you should be ashamed”, then she said “but i like…” cut er off again and said ” Nah thats fucked and i would never date you knowing thats how you act! But i really dont care cuz im bowling so if you wanna blab ill find one of these losers to occupy u while i bowl”. then i grab this little 15 year old dude on the lane next to her and said, “watch this girl for me” and sat him down next to her. She was shocked for a few minutes, but she still smiled at me, still talked to me, and still gave me ioi’s. we’ll a week went by, and she called me!!! but the thing is, i was always the one to call her before, which means she was thinkin about me! she asked if i wanted to go to a party with her, and i said ” can i bring a date? cuz im not bout to sit and watch you fuck the whole party” she said “noooo i wanted you to go with me” and i said well as nice as that sounds ill have to pass, hit me up tomorrow and we’ll go somewhere where i can keep an eye on you”. well she did and we went to the pool hall. I kind of shocked myself after all of this and i wondered, can i still fuck this girl? like i know i blew myself of b4 but shes just not acting the same! i seem to hold the power now and i love it! so is it worth it for me to go for it?