About the Author
For over nearly 20 years David Wygant has been earning the trust of American men and women looking to transform their love lives. Today, no dating coach on earth commands more respect from the media, from other experts, and from real-life individuals.
David is just one the many speakers who will be speaking at next months PUA Summit.
PUA Summit Answer To Promo Questions – Part 1
Question 1: What Opener Has Worked Best For You And Why?
As you all know, I am 100% different than anyone else out there. I don’t believe in canned routines or pre-planned openers, because women are all about serendipitous moments. Everyone can create an unbelievably powerful opener based on what’s going on around them.
The key to attracting a woman is to be aware of what she’s doing in that moment. So every time I see a woman, I run the scenario happening around me through my head to be successful in opening her (because the key to successfully opening a woman is to make it casual, fun and non-threatening).
A good opener is based on her not feeling like she’s being opened. It needs to feel like a twist of fate to her: You’re in a coffee shop, she’s there and you meet. It’s how women are wired.
So how do you open a woman anyplace and anytime? First, observe what she’s doing or feeling. This is really simple. Ask yourself this question: What does her facial expression convey right now? Is she happy? Sad? Frustrated?
Also, observe what she physically is doing at that moment. Is she ordering a sandwich? Is she sampling coffee? Smelling blueberries? Once you process this information, what is the first thing that comes to your mind?
You’ll need to train yourself to do this. The best way to do that is to take a week and write down everything you feel when you watch people, so that you are able to quickly react to any situation.
The other thing to do is to be sure to have a powerful voice tone when you talk to a woman. Once you know what you’re going to say, walk over like you’ve said what you’re about to say 1000 times before. The more casual you are in your approach, the better her response will be to you because what you say will be coming from what’s already in her head. It gets you off to an easy start into a conversation.
This is how I craft openers all the time . . . and they work every time.
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I go in for the kiss 3/4th the way in to the date…. waiting till she’s on the way into her house is kinda awkward for me
agreed…then or before if you have real balls…
David sometimes risks becoming the cranky old guy (on his own blog, some of his videos are hilarious) but this stuff he gets exactly right. Guys too often seek out a guru to teach them some kind of magic cheat code they can memorize, when getting their own lives in order would help them so much more with women.
I’ve been teaching myself about self love since I was 11 years old; it’s called masterbation
I have to say that I love situational openers. This is really a great natural way to shift into opening. Girls want that feeling that the met George Clooney in the rain, just like in a movie. Man I was I was in LA instead of London this month. That conference looks amazing!!
@Paladin whats up bro? you hitting up USA any time soon?